Broken Marriage - Do You Really Want a Divorce?
Living in a broken marriage is difficult, frustrating and sometimes extremely painful and definitely not what you signed up for.
Each day you wake up and wonder what's going to be the problem of the day that sinks your broken marriage closer to divorce.
Sometimes you just want to cry or drive your car off the road because either one seems like a good choice compared to staying married.
I hope your marriage is not as broken as I described above.
If your marriage is broken I hope and pray that in the next couple of days or weeks you can begin to fix the problems in your marriage and begin to feel loved, appreciated and hopeful about your marriage and future together.
Is your broken marriage really making you think about divorce? I know if you are you are thinking about divorce you are considering all of the complexities that go along with a divorce.
The emotional strain a divorce puts on the couple, children and family can be quite devastating so divorce shouldn't be taken lightly.
Before you decide that you want a divorce because of your marriage problems, I would like you to do the following.
Determine What You Desire To Be Fixed In Your Broken Marriage Sometimes I believe it's important to write down what you want fixed in your marriage.
It's one thing to feel like your marriage is broken but have you really taken the time to think about all that's going wrong? It's important to know exactly what's wrong so you can figure out what's fixable and what's acceptable if it's not corrected immediately.
You should now have a clear mind on what you need and desire in your broken marriage to be fixed.
There should be no confusing messages like "I just can't put my finger on it but our marriage is broken".
If you can't explain what the problem is or what you desire in the marriage then I would suggest you spend a little more time figuring it out.
Decide If Things Changed In Your Broken Marriage Would You Stay Ok, once you figure out what's broken and how you need things to be, now what? What if your spouse sees the error of his or her ways and is determined to immediately start taking steps to give you the marriage you have been hoping for.
Is that the answer you were looking for or would you still want a divorce? You see, sometimes spouses demand that their partner make changes, all the while hoping that the spouse refuses to change, thus making the divorce process easier and less guilty.
Each day you wake up and wonder what's going to be the problem of the day that sinks your broken marriage closer to divorce.
Sometimes you just want to cry or drive your car off the road because either one seems like a good choice compared to staying married.
I hope your marriage is not as broken as I described above.
If your marriage is broken I hope and pray that in the next couple of days or weeks you can begin to fix the problems in your marriage and begin to feel loved, appreciated and hopeful about your marriage and future together.
Is your broken marriage really making you think about divorce? I know if you are you are thinking about divorce you are considering all of the complexities that go along with a divorce.
The emotional strain a divorce puts on the couple, children and family can be quite devastating so divorce shouldn't be taken lightly.
Before you decide that you want a divorce because of your marriage problems, I would like you to do the following.
Determine What You Desire To Be Fixed In Your Broken Marriage Sometimes I believe it's important to write down what you want fixed in your marriage.
It's one thing to feel like your marriage is broken but have you really taken the time to think about all that's going wrong? It's important to know exactly what's wrong so you can figure out what's fixable and what's acceptable if it's not corrected immediately.
You should now have a clear mind on what you need and desire in your broken marriage to be fixed.
There should be no confusing messages like "I just can't put my finger on it but our marriage is broken".
If you can't explain what the problem is or what you desire in the marriage then I would suggest you spend a little more time figuring it out.
Decide If Things Changed In Your Broken Marriage Would You Stay Ok, once you figure out what's broken and how you need things to be, now what? What if your spouse sees the error of his or her ways and is determined to immediately start taking steps to give you the marriage you have been hoping for.
Is that the answer you were looking for or would you still want a divorce? You see, sometimes spouses demand that their partner make changes, all the while hoping that the spouse refuses to change, thus making the divorce process easier and less guilty.