3 Easy Ways - How to Get Your Ex Back For Sure
Get Over Your Desperation First of all you have to calm down and accept what happened so far.
Why is it so important to avoid desperation at all costs? When you are desperately trying to get your ex back, you are bound to make mistakes and risk to scare your lover off.
Your mind will come up with the wildest plans to save your relationship - and they will all sound reasonable to you! That's why your first step is to accept the situation you are in and calmly think about how to get your ex back.
Make Love, Not War Many people in your situation feel overwhelmed with fear and anger.
Fear because they are afraid of losing their love.
Anger because they blame their partner for leaving them or just generally destroying their relationship.
But giving in to these natural emotions or allow them to provoke arguments with your partner is not how to get your ex back - it's the exact opposite! Instead you should aim for open conversations, a path to reconciliation.
Do Not Care TOO MUCH Alright, it's hard to explain this one.
It's very important to understand, that people always want the things they can't have.
Cool jobs, money, luxury houses - you name it.
On the other side we tend to ignore what we can achieve too easily.
It's the same thing in relationships.
The more you run after your ex, the more you care the less your partner will want you back.
Okay, there is a fine line and I am not telling you to ignore your ex! Still I advise you to get some distance and avoid to appear needy under any circumstances.
Why is it so important to avoid desperation at all costs? When you are desperately trying to get your ex back, you are bound to make mistakes and risk to scare your lover off.
Your mind will come up with the wildest plans to save your relationship - and they will all sound reasonable to you! That's why your first step is to accept the situation you are in and calmly think about how to get your ex back.
Make Love, Not War Many people in your situation feel overwhelmed with fear and anger.
Fear because they are afraid of losing their love.
Anger because they blame their partner for leaving them or just generally destroying their relationship.
But giving in to these natural emotions or allow them to provoke arguments with your partner is not how to get your ex back - it's the exact opposite! Instead you should aim for open conversations, a path to reconciliation.
Do Not Care TOO MUCH Alright, it's hard to explain this one.
It's very important to understand, that people always want the things they can't have.
Cool jobs, money, luxury houses - you name it.
On the other side we tend to ignore what we can achieve too easily.
It's the same thing in relationships.
The more you run after your ex, the more you care the less your partner will want you back.
Okay, there is a fine line and I am not telling you to ignore your ex! Still I advise you to get some distance and avoid to appear needy under any circumstances.