Want to Get Your Ex Back? 2 Powerful Steps to Break Their Ego and Get Them Back Forever
Most people hate to see their own faults that cause the break-up of their relationship with their lovers.
And a few who do see, hold their lovers responsible for not showing enough understanding, sensitivity and generosity towards their human failings.
Such is the human ingenuity that we always try to pass the buck of our failures to others.
They argue that their lovers too had their shortcomings, still they loved them.
They never think that the reason they loved their ex was that they (their ex) also loved them as much or even more.
A relationship is always a two sided affair.
Quite possibly, your ex is also thinking the same way as you-expecting you to have overlooked their weaknesses.
And both of you are sticking to your egos, trying not to look at the problem from other's perspective.
This brings us to the first powerful step to bring back your ex.
Empathise with your ex.
Get into their mind.
Remove the goggles from your eyes that make you see your ex in a particular colour.
The greatest enemy of your relationship with your loved ones is your ego.
It, however, does not mean that you should not maintain your self-respect.
You must learn to differentiate the true self-respect from the false ego.
It means that while you respect your own sensibilities, you must allow the same freedom to your lover as well.
Once you clear the cobwebs of egoism and exaggerated notion of your self-righteousness, the road to the heart of your ex shall become smooth and clear.
This brings us to the second important and logical step.
Invite your ex over a cup of coffee.
Do not worry that they will not oblige you or trust you.
The sincerity in your tone is bound to make its impact.
The trouble with most of us is that we place too much premium on so-called techniques.
We try to act--pretend to be what we are actually not.
We try to dramatize the things.
Diplomacy is used with enemies, not with friends and lovers.
A true lover understands and appreciates the language of heart whose hallmark is sincerity.
Even animals can understand that.
True love can be felt through the eyes, face and tone.
This is just one way to resolve your problem with your ex on realistic and permanent basis.
There are several other ways.
Whatever be the cause of your breakup with your lover, it may be infidelity, loss of interest and dispute for whatever reason, your relationship can be brought back to old love and warmth.
And a few who do see, hold their lovers responsible for not showing enough understanding, sensitivity and generosity towards their human failings.
Such is the human ingenuity that we always try to pass the buck of our failures to others.
They argue that their lovers too had their shortcomings, still they loved them.
They never think that the reason they loved their ex was that they (their ex) also loved them as much or even more.
A relationship is always a two sided affair.
Quite possibly, your ex is also thinking the same way as you-expecting you to have overlooked their weaknesses.
And both of you are sticking to your egos, trying not to look at the problem from other's perspective.
This brings us to the first powerful step to bring back your ex.
Empathise with your ex.
Get into their mind.
Remove the goggles from your eyes that make you see your ex in a particular colour.
The greatest enemy of your relationship with your loved ones is your ego.
It, however, does not mean that you should not maintain your self-respect.
You must learn to differentiate the true self-respect from the false ego.
It means that while you respect your own sensibilities, you must allow the same freedom to your lover as well.
Once you clear the cobwebs of egoism and exaggerated notion of your self-righteousness, the road to the heart of your ex shall become smooth and clear.
This brings us to the second important and logical step.
Invite your ex over a cup of coffee.
Do not worry that they will not oblige you or trust you.
The sincerity in your tone is bound to make its impact.
The trouble with most of us is that we place too much premium on so-called techniques.
We try to act--pretend to be what we are actually not.
We try to dramatize the things.
Diplomacy is used with enemies, not with friends and lovers.
A true lover understands and appreciates the language of heart whose hallmark is sincerity.
Even animals can understand that.
True love can be felt through the eyes, face and tone.
This is just one way to resolve your problem with your ex on realistic and permanent basis.
There are several other ways.
Whatever be the cause of your breakup with your lover, it may be infidelity, loss of interest and dispute for whatever reason, your relationship can be brought back to old love and warmth.