5 Deadly Mistakes to Avoid If You Want to Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back in a Hurry
A breakup of any relationship is a sad event.
If you are suffering the pain of a breakup, I know how you feel.
I have been there and I can safely say that the saddest/loneliest time in my life was when I split with my girlfriend.
If you are in this position and now realise that you want to get your ex boyfriend back, then there is hope if you play your cards right.
Play them wrong and it could signal the end of any chance you had to get your ex boyfriend back.
Avoid These 5 Deadly Mistakes and you will give yourself every chance of getting your ex boyfriend back in a hurry.
Mistake 1 - Don't continue to ring your ex boyfriend.
Women love their phones and love to use them.
After a breakup up, the initial temptation is to keep ringing your ex.
Take the hint, if he is angry or giving you the cold shoulder, he is telling you that he needs time out.
That is normal and you give yourself a better chance to get your ex boyfriend back if you give him some breathing space.
Your phone will turn out to be your worst enemy if you continue to use it particularly when you have been drinking.
Mistake 2 - Don't bombard him with text messages or emails.
This can have the same effect as ringing him excessively.
Obviously, your emotions are running wild at this time, but you will really hurt your chances of getting him back if you send an endless amount of texts or emails.
Once again, give him some breathing space - he may actually miss YOU and that is what you are hoping for.
Mistake 3 - Don't make unannounced visits to him.
He may not be ready to see you just yet, so stay away.
Mistake 4 - Don't use emotional blackmail.
Falling in a big heap and going to pieces is probably how you feel right now.
Stay strong and don't let him know that you can't live without him.
He will more than likely respect you more if you look as if you are moving on with your life.
You also start to make him feel that the breakup was not a good idea.
Mistake 5 - Don't neglect yourself.
During emotional times like a breakup, there is a tendency for some of us to find comfort in food or alcohol.
While it is difficult, make sure you look after yourself with what you eat and drink and the way you look.
Instead of going into your shell, dress yourself up, put on a brave face and look as if it's "business as usual".
This will be hard to do, but it will prove to be your best move in trying to get your ex boyfriend back.
These are the 5 deadly mistakes to avoid in trying to get your ex boyfriend back.
Avoid these and you will very quickly find that you are now in a position to make a proper, full out assault to get him back.
Whatever you do, don't let your love end this way - Take the steps to happiness today.
If you are suffering the pain of a breakup, I know how you feel.
I have been there and I can safely say that the saddest/loneliest time in my life was when I split with my girlfriend.
If you are in this position and now realise that you want to get your ex boyfriend back, then there is hope if you play your cards right.
Play them wrong and it could signal the end of any chance you had to get your ex boyfriend back.
Avoid These 5 Deadly Mistakes and you will give yourself every chance of getting your ex boyfriend back in a hurry.
Mistake 1 - Don't continue to ring your ex boyfriend.
Women love their phones and love to use them.
After a breakup up, the initial temptation is to keep ringing your ex.
Take the hint, if he is angry or giving you the cold shoulder, he is telling you that he needs time out.
That is normal and you give yourself a better chance to get your ex boyfriend back if you give him some breathing space.
Your phone will turn out to be your worst enemy if you continue to use it particularly when you have been drinking.
Mistake 2 - Don't bombard him with text messages or emails.
This can have the same effect as ringing him excessively.
Obviously, your emotions are running wild at this time, but you will really hurt your chances of getting him back if you send an endless amount of texts or emails.
Once again, give him some breathing space - he may actually miss YOU and that is what you are hoping for.
Mistake 3 - Don't make unannounced visits to him.
He may not be ready to see you just yet, so stay away.
Mistake 4 - Don't use emotional blackmail.
Falling in a big heap and going to pieces is probably how you feel right now.
Stay strong and don't let him know that you can't live without him.
He will more than likely respect you more if you look as if you are moving on with your life.
You also start to make him feel that the breakup was not a good idea.
Mistake 5 - Don't neglect yourself.
During emotional times like a breakup, there is a tendency for some of us to find comfort in food or alcohol.
While it is difficult, make sure you look after yourself with what you eat and drink and the way you look.
Instead of going into your shell, dress yourself up, put on a brave face and look as if it's "business as usual".
This will be hard to do, but it will prove to be your best move in trying to get your ex boyfriend back.
These are the 5 deadly mistakes to avoid in trying to get your ex boyfriend back.
Avoid these and you will very quickly find that you are now in a position to make a proper, full out assault to get him back.
Whatever you do, don't let your love end this way - Take the steps to happiness today.