How to Make Your Boyfriend or Girlfriend Smile With a Short Love Text Message?
How to show your boyfriend that you love him? How to make your girlfriend feel loved? Text messaging is one good way to say 'I love you' and to keep your relationship fresh. It's personal and immediate, whether via SMS or via more recent messaging services like Whatsapp. There are at least three reasons why your relationship may benefit from sending 'love you' messages every now and then.
First, it can help to improve the quality of your relationship. Reassuring your partner that you care and think about him or her is a good way to keep your relationship strong and healthy. All it takes is a short text message to let your partner know you're thinking of him or her, even when you're not together.
Second, sending a text message gives you time to think about what you really want to say to your love. Hence, it gives you the opportunity to say things you wouldn't necessarily say otherwise. You can, for example, take some time to think about a creative way to describe the relationship between you and your better half, or a cute way to tell your lover how he or she is special to you. Messages from the heart are the best.
Third, sending a text message rather than calling can make it easier to express your true emotions to the person you love. Many people find it hard to say 'I love you' in person. It makes them feel vulnerable and weak (yet, in my opinion it takes strength to express your emotions). A Whatsapp or SMS message can help you in this case: It's still personal and direct enough to lighten up your relation. Of course, it can never completely replace saying 'I love you' face to face.
While there are plenty of other reasons to send your love or date a sweet text message, at the same time it is often hard to come up with a cute or funny message. What to say and what not to say? How to make your love smile with a short message? For this article I analyzed the top-20 best rated and top-20 worst rated love text messages on textyourlove.com (spring 2013). This has resulted in 10 general rules - including some examples - for love texting: The Do's and Don'ts for writing short love text messages.
The Do's for short love text messages include:
1. Tell your love that he or she is special
"If I could give you one thing in life, I would give you the ability to see yourself through my eyes. Only then would you realize how special you are to me."
2. Emphasize that you want to spend lots of time, or even the rest of your life, with him or her
"If I had to choose between you or the world, I would choose you in a heartbeat because if I have you, you would be my world
3. Use humor
"Our relationship is like tom & jerry. We tease each other, chase each other, knock down each other, irritate each other but we cannot live without each other"
4. Just let your love know that you think about him or her
"Tiny stars shining bright, it's time for me to say goodnight. So close your eyes and snuggle up tight. I am wishing you sweet dreams tonight."
5. Tell your love that you will do everything for him or her
"Sometimes I wonder if love is worth fighting for. Then I think of you, I am ready for the war!"
The Don'ts for short love text messages include:
6. Avoid spelling and/ or grammar errors
"God must be missing an angel, are your dad from space?"
7. Do not overuse texting abbreviations and sms-language
"U re jus lyk d air i breath cos u re xo special"
8. Do not criticize his or her appearance
"You're fat and ugly! But! But! Your heart is BEAUTIFUL"
9. Avoid vague or strange comparisons
"I love you more than my mom!"
10. Never put your love second
"Babe, sorry I didn't give you anything for valentine, I prefer my money remains mine."
I am sure there will be other important tips out there. If you have more or other suggestions, please comment on this article. For now, what are you waiting for? Grab your phone and send your sweetie a cute or funny text! Make your boy- or girlfriend feel loved (more and more)!
First, it can help to improve the quality of your relationship. Reassuring your partner that you care and think about him or her is a good way to keep your relationship strong and healthy. All it takes is a short text message to let your partner know you're thinking of him or her, even when you're not together.
Second, sending a text message gives you time to think about what you really want to say to your love. Hence, it gives you the opportunity to say things you wouldn't necessarily say otherwise. You can, for example, take some time to think about a creative way to describe the relationship between you and your better half, or a cute way to tell your lover how he or she is special to you. Messages from the heart are the best.
Third, sending a text message rather than calling can make it easier to express your true emotions to the person you love. Many people find it hard to say 'I love you' in person. It makes them feel vulnerable and weak (yet, in my opinion it takes strength to express your emotions). A Whatsapp or SMS message can help you in this case: It's still personal and direct enough to lighten up your relation. Of course, it can never completely replace saying 'I love you' face to face.
While there are plenty of other reasons to send your love or date a sweet text message, at the same time it is often hard to come up with a cute or funny message. What to say and what not to say? How to make your love smile with a short message? For this article I analyzed the top-20 best rated and top-20 worst rated love text messages on textyourlove.com (spring 2013). This has resulted in 10 general rules - including some examples - for love texting: The Do's and Don'ts for writing short love text messages.
The Do's for short love text messages include:
1. Tell your love that he or she is special
"If I could give you one thing in life, I would give you the ability to see yourself through my eyes. Only then would you realize how special you are to me."
2. Emphasize that you want to spend lots of time, or even the rest of your life, with him or her
"If I had to choose between you or the world, I would choose you in a heartbeat because if I have you, you would be my world
3. Use humor
"Our relationship is like tom & jerry. We tease each other, chase each other, knock down each other, irritate each other but we cannot live without each other"
4. Just let your love know that you think about him or her
"Tiny stars shining bright, it's time for me to say goodnight. So close your eyes and snuggle up tight. I am wishing you sweet dreams tonight."
5. Tell your love that you will do everything for him or her
"Sometimes I wonder if love is worth fighting for. Then I think of you, I am ready for the war!"
The Don'ts for short love text messages include:
6. Avoid spelling and/ or grammar errors
"God must be missing an angel, are your dad from space?"
7. Do not overuse texting abbreviations and sms-language
"U re jus lyk d air i breath cos u re xo special"
8. Do not criticize his or her appearance
"You're fat and ugly! But! But! Your heart is BEAUTIFUL"
9. Avoid vague or strange comparisons
"I love you more than my mom!"
10. Never put your love second
"Babe, sorry I didn't give you anything for valentine, I prefer my money remains mine."
I am sure there will be other important tips out there. If you have more or other suggestions, please comment on this article. For now, what are you waiting for? Grab your phone and send your sweetie a cute or funny text! Make your boy- or girlfriend feel loved (more and more)!