Love Making The Series Part 2: High Powered Love Techniques
High-Powered Love Techniques
Marriage can be a haven of peace and hope wrapped in a cocoon of love, or it can be a battlefield of shattered dreams and slaughtered promises. Marriage is alive and living thing like a butterfly or a child it can be nutured to reach full potential or starved and left to wither and die. In a successful marriage there can be no I, only we and us. The individual must learn to become a part of a dynamic team as the they become enmeshed in a spirit of unity.
This is not about lost of self it is an enhancement of all you can become, it is the art of loving one another as much as you love yourself. Two people in agreement in search of one goal to help, encourage, look out for, and empower each other this is the foundation of a love that will weather the storms of life. Marriage can be a mighty fortress of love, so how do we strengthen our marriage in a world of hurried disconnect? How do we keep the flames of passion from flickering out?
Here are 3 high-powered love techniques
2. Listen, with an open heart and a non-judgemental mind. Your spouse needs to be able to be authenic and real with you, without fear of reprisal. Be understanding to their hurts, anxieites and desires. Treasure their thoughts and feelings as you do your own. Even when you don't agree refuse to belittle their viewpoint.
Become known as a spouse with a caring and compassionate ear. Everyone wants to be heard,understood and respected, this is a great way to show your love for your spouse.Turn off the television, disconnect the computer, refuse to answer your smart phone.Cuddle together and listen to one anothers heartbeat. Listen with a loving and caring ear.
3. Utilize the power of touch, touch your spouse often in none sexual ways. A light kiss on the neck, the massage of the shoulder, the holding of hands the stroking of a thigh. Stay connect, focus on ways you can satisify your spouse.
Tammie-Maria Allen © 2011
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Marriage can be a haven of peace and hope wrapped in a cocoon of love, or it can be a battlefield of shattered dreams and slaughtered promises. Marriage is alive and living thing like a butterfly or a child it can be nutured to reach full potential or starved and left to wither and die. In a successful marriage there can be no I, only we and us. The individual must learn to become a part of a dynamic team as the they become enmeshed in a spirit of unity.
This is not about lost of self it is an enhancement of all you can become, it is the art of loving one another as much as you love yourself. Two people in agreement in search of one goal to help, encourage, look out for, and empower each other this is the foundation of a love that will weather the storms of life. Marriage can be a mighty fortress of love, so how do we strengthen our marriage in a world of hurried disconnect? How do we keep the flames of passion from flickering out?
Here are 3 high-powered love techniques
- Pray together, if you are people of faith, you understand the intiamicy of faith, the power of prayer and the wholeness that comes from being connect to the Creator of your souls. Pray about ways you can make your marriage alive, sizzling and lasting.
2. Listen, with an open heart and a non-judgemental mind. Your spouse needs to be able to be authenic and real with you, without fear of reprisal. Be understanding to their hurts, anxieites and desires. Treasure their thoughts and feelings as you do your own. Even when you don't agree refuse to belittle their viewpoint.
Become known as a spouse with a caring and compassionate ear. Everyone wants to be heard,understood and respected, this is a great way to show your love for your spouse.Turn off the television, disconnect the computer, refuse to answer your smart phone.Cuddle together and listen to one anothers heartbeat. Listen with a loving and caring ear.
3. Utilize the power of touch, touch your spouse often in none sexual ways. A light kiss on the neck, the massage of the shoulder, the holding of hands the stroking of a thigh. Stay connect, focus on ways you can satisify your spouse.
Tammie-Maria Allen © 2011
BuffedStuff