How to Save Your Relationship – It's Not Rocket Science, Just Pay Attention
You must be thinking that, having your relationship to be restored seems impossible. But it is only because that you're working on a wrong direction, a wrong approach. Now this is very important, all you have to do is pay attention to the problem, the actual problem which most people overlook.
You must be thinking, "they broke up with me because I'm unattractive, I drink too much, spend too little time with them, couldn't give them the luxury they wanted". These are some of the things might be going through your mind, but still that is not the core of the problem. WHAT!?!? Then what is it? Well it's very simple, it's not rocket science we're talking about, just pay attention, and I'll guide you on how to save your relationship.
Maintain Distance
Yes, you've just broke up with them, you wanted to get back with your ex as soon as possible, but by doing so, you're actually putting more pressure on them that eventually leads them to decline you again. Both of you need time to chill out, especially you yourself if you're considering of saving your relationship, because when you are not in a clear state of mind, you tend to work on impulse, you're just being selfish and thinking only yourself.
Right now, you're not the person you're ex once fallen in love with, you've changed, throughout the relationship. So now it's time to seriously consider what went wrong and how can you fix the situation and be the person that your ex once fallen in love with.
Focus on the Right Thing
Many times, the actual problem isn't what you see as it is. For example, you're out working hard making a living, once you're back, you're dead tired you don't even want to talk and just head back to the room and shut yourself in, and your partner would want to know what happened, they wanted share the burden with you, but you refuse to burden them and try to hold it all by yourself, ended up, you're both not talking to each other anymore or worst, quarrelling over little things about how your partner is not being understanding and the list goes on. But the actual problem is just very simple, both of you are not communicating effectively, each of you have a different mindset and you expect others to understands it. Not quite realistic isn't it.
Try to back track where all this arguments or signs or breaking up starts, pay more attention to little details, think in their shoes and you'll definitely find the core problem that causing you're relationship to fail. Most people are just too egoistic to consider their own mistake, they'll just blame that the other party are not being understanding, don't be that person, find out what's wrong, without know the actual problem, you'll never able to solve it.
There is too much to put in one small short article here, I wished I could just write in everything here, if you're seriously considering on how to save your relationship, get to my website, I'll explain it in detail there, hurry up and get over to the next page, every second you're hesitating you're risking you're chance of getting them back. http://chubbid-loversguide.blogspot.com/p/magic-of-making-up_09.html
You must be thinking, "they broke up with me because I'm unattractive, I drink too much, spend too little time with them, couldn't give them the luxury they wanted". These are some of the things might be going through your mind, but still that is not the core of the problem. WHAT!?!? Then what is it? Well it's very simple, it's not rocket science we're talking about, just pay attention, and I'll guide you on how to save your relationship.
Maintain Distance
Yes, you've just broke up with them, you wanted to get back with your ex as soon as possible, but by doing so, you're actually putting more pressure on them that eventually leads them to decline you again. Both of you need time to chill out, especially you yourself if you're considering of saving your relationship, because when you are not in a clear state of mind, you tend to work on impulse, you're just being selfish and thinking only yourself.
Right now, you're not the person you're ex once fallen in love with, you've changed, throughout the relationship. So now it's time to seriously consider what went wrong and how can you fix the situation and be the person that your ex once fallen in love with.
Focus on the Right Thing
Many times, the actual problem isn't what you see as it is. For example, you're out working hard making a living, once you're back, you're dead tired you don't even want to talk and just head back to the room and shut yourself in, and your partner would want to know what happened, they wanted share the burden with you, but you refuse to burden them and try to hold it all by yourself, ended up, you're both not talking to each other anymore or worst, quarrelling over little things about how your partner is not being understanding and the list goes on. But the actual problem is just very simple, both of you are not communicating effectively, each of you have a different mindset and you expect others to understands it. Not quite realistic isn't it.
Try to back track where all this arguments or signs or breaking up starts, pay more attention to little details, think in their shoes and you'll definitely find the core problem that causing you're relationship to fail. Most people are just too egoistic to consider their own mistake, they'll just blame that the other party are not being understanding, don't be that person, find out what's wrong, without know the actual problem, you'll never able to solve it.
There is too much to put in one small short article here, I wished I could just write in everything here, if you're seriously considering on how to save your relationship, get to my website, I'll explain it in detail there, hurry up and get over to the next page, every second you're hesitating you're risking you're chance of getting them back. http://chubbid-loversguide.blogspot.com/p/magic-of-making-up_09.html