Have you ever tried walking up to a girl and saying a romantic pick up line? How did it go? I have tried that a lot, and not only romantic pick up lines, but also cheesy and funny pick up lines.
I have never had too much success with it.
Actually, I never did have much success with picking up women.
After a lot of trial and error, I realized something.
Pick up Lines do not work, because all they do is to flatter the woman.
Since an average looking woman is approached somewhere between 20-50 times each day, it is no wonder she is good at turning hopeful men down.
So, what I realized is, that in order to get the girls attention, you need to get a chance to show her who you really are.
However, if you never get a chance to do so, you will not get very far in this game.
What I do now, is to use openers instead of cheesy, funny or romantic pick up lines.
Now, here is an example of an opener: "Hi guys, I need a female opinion on something.
What do you think of...
?" Look at the difference between this opener and this classic: "I could die tomorrow and it would not matter...
, as long as I knew that I could meet an angel like you in Heaven" The opener gives the girls the opportunity to respond and interact with you.
Eventually, when you get skilled enough, you will be able to stack these kinds of openers, so it keeps the conversation going and at the same time, sounds naturally.