How To Talk To A Woman Even If You Don" t Really Have Much To Say To Her
As a single guy wanting to meet women, one of the hardest things to overcome is that feeling that you get when you know that you really want to talk to a woman, but you also feel like you really don't have much to say to her. You know that if you approach a woman and try to get a conversation started with her and there is nothing but dead silence that it's not really going to make a good impression on her. So, having that feeling that you don't really have much to say can actually become quite the obstacle as far as your overall success with dating goes.
Here are some tips that will help you out if you get into a situation where you feel like you don't have much to say to a woman you want to get to know better:
1. When you haven't got much to say, that is a good time to try to get her to do some of the talking.
Remember that conversations are not one way, they go both ways and one of the mistakes that men sometimes make is forgetting to allow a woman to do some of the talking. Well, when you feel like you've run out of things to say, that is as good of a time as any to allow her to do some of the talking. A good way to get that going is to ask her an open ended question.
2. If you don't have a conversation starter, you might want to use a canned approach.
I am not much for the idea of memorizing conversation starters most of the time, but it doesn't hurt to have a few that you have on hand if you need them. Of course, when you don't have a conversation starter that you can come up with off the top of your head, having that memorized one is going to be better than having nothing at all.
3. Live a little bit more.
This is something that you might want to look into if you always feel like you have nothing to talk about with a woman. Not for nothing, but if you always have a hard time thinking of things to say to a woman, that might be an indication that you need to live a bit more. The more interesting things that you do with your life, the more interesting things you are going to have to start a conversation and keep it going.
Here are some tips that will help you out if you get into a situation where you feel like you don't have much to say to a woman you want to get to know better:
1. When you haven't got much to say, that is a good time to try to get her to do some of the talking.
Remember that conversations are not one way, they go both ways and one of the mistakes that men sometimes make is forgetting to allow a woman to do some of the talking. Well, when you feel like you've run out of things to say, that is as good of a time as any to allow her to do some of the talking. A good way to get that going is to ask her an open ended question.
2. If you don't have a conversation starter, you might want to use a canned approach.
I am not much for the idea of memorizing conversation starters most of the time, but it doesn't hurt to have a few that you have on hand if you need them. Of course, when you don't have a conversation starter that you can come up with off the top of your head, having that memorized one is going to be better than having nothing at all.
3. Live a little bit more.
This is something that you might want to look into if you always feel like you have nothing to talk about with a woman. Not for nothing, but if you always have a hard time thinking of things to say to a woman, that might be an indication that you need to live a bit more. The more interesting things that you do with your life, the more interesting things you are going to have to start a conversation and keep it going.