I Cheated, Now I Want Him or Her Back
Trust, respect and loyalty are three very important values in a relationship.
If you are wondering, "I have cheated, now I want him/her back but I do not know how", you may be in for a lot of hard work, pain and suffering.
If one or two of these values have been taken away there is barely any chance that the relationship could ever be the same again.
Possible reasons that trust, respect or loyalty could be broken are adultery, cheating on your boyfriend or girlfriend, lying and simply not keeping your promises.
If you have cheated on your boyfriend and are desperate to get back with him/her, there are a few things you need to ask yourself first.
First, since you have realized that you have cheated, now I want him/her back ask yourself why you cheated on your partner in the first place.
Was it because your partner was not the kind of person you really expected? Was it because your partner lacked in giving you their time, attention and affection when you were still together? Another question you can ask is, "why do I want my partner back in the first place?" Did you realize that you actually still love him or her and made a terrible mistake? Are you lonely and want someone to give you the companionship you need at the moment? If deep down inside you have truly accepted that you cheated, now I want him/her back, here are a few steps to getting your ex back.
Be careful though because the process is very difficult and you are going to have to do a lot to show your ex that you have made a mistake and would like to repair the relationship.
Start by asking if he or she is willing to listen to your side of the story.
You are not going to get anything if your ex does not want to speak to you ever again.
Give it some time and maybe once your partner's anger and resentment has lowered you can meet up and start explaining why you cheated.
Next let your partner know just how sorry you really are for committing such a mistake.
Though they will not believe you at first, just persevere and maybe your partner might give you a chance to make it up to him/her after all.
This is of course, is if your partner still loves you and is willing to give you another chance.
Be as understanding and attentive as you can be when rebuilding the relationship.
Remember that it was you who cheated, now I want him/her back.
If you are wondering, "I have cheated, now I want him/her back but I do not know how", you may be in for a lot of hard work, pain and suffering.
If one or two of these values have been taken away there is barely any chance that the relationship could ever be the same again.
Possible reasons that trust, respect or loyalty could be broken are adultery, cheating on your boyfriend or girlfriend, lying and simply not keeping your promises.
If you have cheated on your boyfriend and are desperate to get back with him/her, there are a few things you need to ask yourself first.
First, since you have realized that you have cheated, now I want him/her back ask yourself why you cheated on your partner in the first place.
Was it because your partner was not the kind of person you really expected? Was it because your partner lacked in giving you their time, attention and affection when you were still together? Another question you can ask is, "why do I want my partner back in the first place?" Did you realize that you actually still love him or her and made a terrible mistake? Are you lonely and want someone to give you the companionship you need at the moment? If deep down inside you have truly accepted that you cheated, now I want him/her back, here are a few steps to getting your ex back.
Be careful though because the process is very difficult and you are going to have to do a lot to show your ex that you have made a mistake and would like to repair the relationship.
Start by asking if he or she is willing to listen to your side of the story.
You are not going to get anything if your ex does not want to speak to you ever again.
Give it some time and maybe once your partner's anger and resentment has lowered you can meet up and start explaining why you cheated.
Next let your partner know just how sorry you really are for committing such a mistake.
Though they will not believe you at first, just persevere and maybe your partner might give you a chance to make it up to him/her after all.
This is of course, is if your partner still loves you and is willing to give you another chance.
Be as understanding and attentive as you can be when rebuilding the relationship.
Remember that it was you who cheated, now I want him/her back.