How to Be Irresistible to a Guy - Testing the 7 Tips in Practice
On a Saturday night I decided to put the tips from a book written by Dr.
Grant to a practical test.
He points out seven powerful tips how to be irresistible to men.
The seven hot tips to concentrate are:
Not that bad.
I have actually never had problems on finding a guy in a nightclub.
But with the men I have ended up with - it has never lasted too long.
This time I had decided that I will take no-one with me.
The plan was just to see if it was possible to get the man I spot the first - I wouldn't care about anyone else...
So when making-up I concentrated on lips and left my long hair loose.
Otherwise I think I looked pretty conservative (and I am not any model shaped movie star etc).
Then I just tried to be as natural as possible and smile and laugh a lot - I was just going to be happy and having fun, that's all.
After that most of the 7 things were already covered! The guy I spotted first was then standing on the door to get in so he was my goal.
I thought many ways how to show him that I would love to talk to him.
But I just didn't know if it was going to be totally mess then.
So I decided to go to him later "accidentally" and say him something one could say to anyone.
Some time later I saw him going to the bar to get something to drink.
I decided that as well and went after him.
At the desk I innocently asked him what cocktail I should get.
He recommended "Jaded Lady"...
Then it was easy to start small talk about cocktails.
I left him there because I didn't want to be easy.
And if it had worked he would come to talk me later again.
Later during the night I didn't go to talk to him.
I just made sure that we had eye-contact once a while - and I had a possibility to give him a very hearty smile.
It was much easier than I expected.
Some time later he came to ask me to dance! And we had couple of nice hours chatting...
I had decided to go to bed alone so some time later I told him that I am getting tired and I am leaving.
He came to escort me to the taxi and gave me his business card.
He never asked to come with me and never asked my number or anything...
I am sure this man would have made a better husband than my ex ones.
But he was also a little older, about his 40s...
And for some reason (I have no idea why) didn't feel all my type of a man...
I have been thinking that I will not call him - this was just an experiment, right?
Grant to a practical test.
He points out seven powerful tips how to be irresistible to men.
The seven hot tips to concentrate are:
- Smile - the one of the top things that men find sexy!
- Approachability - be approachable but not appear to be easy!
- Voice - speak slowly and softly!
- Long hair beats short! And lips outrank breasts, legs and the caboose!
- Femininity - save your masculine side for the board room!
- Laughter - a laughing woman is often irresistible to a man!
- Ability to be at ease - the ability to act comfortable with a man is irresistible!
Not that bad.
I have actually never had problems on finding a guy in a nightclub.
But with the men I have ended up with - it has never lasted too long.
This time I had decided that I will take no-one with me.
The plan was just to see if it was possible to get the man I spot the first - I wouldn't care about anyone else...
So when making-up I concentrated on lips and left my long hair loose.
Otherwise I think I looked pretty conservative (and I am not any model shaped movie star etc).
Then I just tried to be as natural as possible and smile and laugh a lot - I was just going to be happy and having fun, that's all.
After that most of the 7 things were already covered! The guy I spotted first was then standing on the door to get in so he was my goal.
I thought many ways how to show him that I would love to talk to him.
But I just didn't know if it was going to be totally mess then.
So I decided to go to him later "accidentally" and say him something one could say to anyone.
Some time later I saw him going to the bar to get something to drink.
I decided that as well and went after him.
At the desk I innocently asked him what cocktail I should get.
He recommended "Jaded Lady"...
Then it was easy to start small talk about cocktails.
I left him there because I didn't want to be easy.
And if it had worked he would come to talk me later again.
Later during the night I didn't go to talk to him.
I just made sure that we had eye-contact once a while - and I had a possibility to give him a very hearty smile.
It was much easier than I expected.
Some time later he came to ask me to dance! And we had couple of nice hours chatting...
I had decided to go to bed alone so some time later I told him that I am getting tired and I am leaving.
He came to escort me to the taxi and gave me his business card.
He never asked to come with me and never asked my number or anything...
I am sure this man would have made a better husband than my ex ones.
But he was also a little older, about his 40s...
And for some reason (I have no idea why) didn't feel all my type of a man...
I have been thinking that I will not call him - this was just an experiment, right?