Why is breaking up such a hard thing to deal with? Is it one of the toughest phases you've been through? Is it physically and mentally draining? You have reached a crossroads and need to decide if you are going to move on or are you going to try and get your ex back? Some people feel that after a break up it is best to move on but find it hard because they still have feelings for their ex which makes it very difficult to move on.
Again, you need to ask yourself some questions, "Do I want to get back together with my ex? What am I willing to do to get my ex back?" Possibly even more important than that is, "Does my ex still have feelings for me?" If they do not have feelings for you anymore then it might be a waste of time trying to get back together with them.
I have included three more ways to tell that your ex still has feelings for you.
1.
Does your ex keep on calling you? I mean constantly, like every day? Odds are that they are calling because they still have feelings for you.
The reasons for all the phone calls can vary from apologizing to promises of change to just about anything.
Answer your phone and talk it out with your ex and you may find yourself back with your ex.
2.
Does your ex "need" to know if you are dating other people? Why in the world would they want to know if you're dating? Let's think about this.
They want to know if you've moved on.
They want to know if you're still "available" or "taken.
" Could this be the clue that gets you back together with your ex? 3.
Does your ex try to make it excuses for the break up? If your ex is trying to make excuses for breaking up with you then chances are that they still have feelings for you.
They are trying to convince themselves that the break up was necessary.
So, what are the questions that you need to answer? Does my ex still have feelings for me? Do I want to get back together with my ex? These are the questions.
If yes, then you'll need some help.