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When Your Boyfriend Says He Needs Space - Say These Words And Change Everything

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When your boyfriend says he needs space, you are apt to let your heart speak for you instead of your head and later you will regret your actions. You think that pleading with him and telling him how much you love him will make him change his mind and give the relationship another try. Instead, your emotional outburst only confirms his decision to break up with you. Do not blame yourself for these actions. You are only human and the urge to keep from losing something you hold dear can overcome the best of us. Take solace in the fact that this was only one phase in your effort to get your ex back. You may have lost this battle, but if you truly love your man and want a future with him, the war is not over.

You can still push some buttons in the mind and heart of your man that will make him as desperate to regain your love as you are to make him love you again. When he told you he needed space, your ex boyfriend was counting on the fact that you still love him. If you show him that it is not necessarily true, it will throw him for a loop, and he will be as confused and desperate as you are right now. The most important thing you can do to get your ex back is to do the opposite of what he is expecting you to do. He is counting on you crying and begging him to love you again. He is expecting phone calls, emails, and text messages, all telling him that you cannot live without him. This will be a great ego builder for him. But instead, you will deflate his ego and make him wonder what happened.

To get your ex boyfriend back, all you need is a little male psychology. He is expecting to get emails from you, so send him an email, but this will not be the email he was expecting. Instead of pleading, you simply agree with the breakup. Tell him that after much consideration you can see that he is right and your relationship is not going anywhere and so it is best to end it. End it by wishing him well in the future. This will stun him as much as him telling you he needed space stunned you.

What you have done by sending him this email is turned things completely around and he is the one feeling rejected. Men cannot handle rejection. It ruins their ego and makes them feel challenged. When a man feels he is losing something, he will move heaven and earth to get it back. Since you have just made your ex feel that he has lost you, he will stop at nothing to get you back. You can be looking for him on your doorstep soon.
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