Infidelity, whether physical, sexual or emotional, are rules that were agreed upon by a couple as boundaries for their relationship.
Unfaithfulness by a husband or wife inflicts pain not only to the spouse who has endured the betrayal but for anyone involved in the situation.
There are several different types of Infidelity that you should be aware of first.
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Romantic Infidelity- This is when the partner who cheated has fallen out of love with his/her spouse or partner 2.
Commemorative Infidelity- Happens when the person has completely fallen out of love with their spouse or partner, yet they are still in a committed relationship with them.
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Conflicted Romantic Infidelity- This is when your partner falls in love with another person whom they are romantically and/or sexually involved with, while still retaining a strong sexual desire and love for their spouse.
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Opportunistic Infidelity- Happens when a partner is in love with their spouse but then expresses their sexual desire for someone else.
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Obligatory Infidelity- This happens when a partner has been denied or refused sexual advances from the other partner.
This can eventually lead to feeling insecure and rejection.
The spouse experiencing the rejection may turn to cheating simply out of the need for approval and acceptance even as they hold onto a strong attraction for their spouse.
If you and your spouse are having marriage problems because of Infidelity or even if you are unsure about a possible betrayal by your spouse, consider talking to a marriage counselor.
A marriage counselor is a professional who can help you learn how to address and overcome problems in your relationship.
It is never too late to learn how to work out any differences and issues with your partner, which can result in a more open and trusting marriage.