Getting advice for dating and relationships is something that I believe is necessary, after all, dating and the relationships that follow is a fad that will never grow old.
But still, relationships continue to build and relationships continue to fall.
It is because of this that many would rather not deal with dating or being in a relationship because, from what they see, it's just too complicated.
What is it that makes dating and relationships so difficult to maintain? It seems like many people forget to be the person they once were at the beginning of the relationship; they change.
People do whatever it takes to be with the person they want, but as soon as the mission is accomplished, out goes the good habits.
The bad thing with that is although the dating stages are over, there's still a huge mission ahead that many oversee.
"The mission" does not only involve getting the one you want, but it also includes keeping the one you want.
I always tell my peers that any man can get any woman, but not every man can keep a woman.
In other words, being in a relationship, "the mission" is never ending.
All the effort that was put in at the beginning shouldn't stop.
The relationship feeds off of it and depends on it in order for it to survive.
It's very important that we build a strong foundation; so strong that even when stormy days come, it withstands it all.
Always remember that a relationship is not a duty, but instead it should be treated as a way of life.
Love it, cherish it, and enjoy it!