Ways to Get Your Ex Girl Back
Guys only realize what has happened after the dust of the final argument had settled.
That is when they start looking for "ways to get their ex girl back".
It then becomes a whole "I need to fix this situation quickly" exercise.
This is when their survival instincts kick into gear and they start philosophizing about what they could have or should have done.
This usually ends with them either calling, messaging, or even begging for a second chance.
Guys just stop, this is not the "way to get your ex girl back".
Unfortunately the above situation is a result of millions of years of evolution.
What? Let me explain; men have always been problem solvers.
They see something happen and they instinctively react, most times without thinking and this is usually when we cause further damage.
Now what must I Then do? 1) Call her Let her understand that you accept the situation as it stands right now.
Remember you have got to stay focused and calm.
It is all part of your strategy.
This will let her see the reasonable side of you, the side she thought did not exist (she starts to wonder if she has not made a mistake).
2) Take a break Stop thinking about her for a while, go do something that will make you feel happy and significant.
Make friends and just try to enjoy yourself.
This is an important part of the strategy, because it will teach you to have fun without your ex girl and clear your head.
3) Decide Decide now "do I want to get back with my ex" or "don't I want to get back with my ex" If you decide to get back with her, then you will have to formulate a plan to take you in that direction.
You should be playing things cool with your ex.
If you have spent enough time apart from her, she is probably missing you as badly as you are missing her.
Play hard to get a little (don't over do it) and show her that you are doing fine without her.
This will inspire her to really rethink things.
And if getting back together with your ex really is meant to be, now is the time when it will become apparent.
Be careful not to analyze things too much, because over analyzing may prevent you from acting the right way when trying to figure out "what can I do to get my ex girlfriend back".
Just take things slow and play them cool and you should be fine.
That is when they start looking for "ways to get their ex girl back".
It then becomes a whole "I need to fix this situation quickly" exercise.
This is when their survival instincts kick into gear and they start philosophizing about what they could have or should have done.
This usually ends with them either calling, messaging, or even begging for a second chance.
Guys just stop, this is not the "way to get your ex girl back".
Unfortunately the above situation is a result of millions of years of evolution.
What? Let me explain; men have always been problem solvers.
They see something happen and they instinctively react, most times without thinking and this is usually when we cause further damage.
Now what must I Then do? 1) Call her Let her understand that you accept the situation as it stands right now.
Remember you have got to stay focused and calm.
It is all part of your strategy.
This will let her see the reasonable side of you, the side she thought did not exist (she starts to wonder if she has not made a mistake).
2) Take a break Stop thinking about her for a while, go do something that will make you feel happy and significant.
Make friends and just try to enjoy yourself.
This is an important part of the strategy, because it will teach you to have fun without your ex girl and clear your head.
3) Decide Decide now "do I want to get back with my ex" or "don't I want to get back with my ex" If you decide to get back with her, then you will have to formulate a plan to take you in that direction.
You should be playing things cool with your ex.
If you have spent enough time apart from her, she is probably missing you as badly as you are missing her.
Play hard to get a little (don't over do it) and show her that you are doing fine without her.
This will inspire her to really rethink things.
And if getting back together with your ex really is meant to be, now is the time when it will become apparent.
Be careful not to analyze things too much, because over analyzing may prevent you from acting the right way when trying to figure out "what can I do to get my ex girlfriend back".
Just take things slow and play them cool and you should be fine.