Understanding Men - 3 Things For Women to Know About Men
Men complain about not being able to understand women, that they are too complicated.
They also claim that women do not understand them either.
Moreover - they would be right.
Women do struggle with understanding men.
They would love to know what men think, if only they would share what they were thinking and feeling.
So, how is a woman supposed to know what is on his mind if he will not talk about it? Rather than talk about all the differences between men and women, it may be helpful to focus on 3 things for women to know in understanding men.
1) Men are more sensitive emotionally than women.
This may sound like a contradiction in terms, as men appear to convey an outwardly strong exterior.
However, men do not have the same ability to deal with and overcome an emotional trauma as women do.
As a result, men keep their emotions inside and do not express them.
When a man hears that he should try to let his feelings out, he fears that if he does, he will not be able to control them.
2) Men hate arguments and confrontation.
Conflict is not a problem needing to be solved.
For a man, conflict means that one person has to win and the other has to lose.
Any problem is better resolved when there is no emotion attached, which is not as threatening to them.
If emotions do become involved a man will struggle to contain his emotions and so withdraw and become silent.
They do not do this as a punishment.
Rather they are desperately trying to keep themselves under control.
3) Men want to get married.
No matter how modern a man is in his thinking, most men still want to get married.
Men do not enjoy being lonely and being single is appealing but lonely.
Finding a woman that a man can trust is as important to him as finding a beautiful woman.
A man also looks for other qualities in a woman.
Only one of them is about how she looks on the outside.
Surprisingly enough, one thing that attracts a man to a woman is confidence.
A woman who is attractive outside and inside will be irresistible to him.
Understanding men begins by becoming aware of how he thinks and these three things are a start in helping a woman in her relationship with her man.
They also claim that women do not understand them either.
Moreover - they would be right.
Women do struggle with understanding men.
They would love to know what men think, if only they would share what they were thinking and feeling.
So, how is a woman supposed to know what is on his mind if he will not talk about it? Rather than talk about all the differences between men and women, it may be helpful to focus on 3 things for women to know in understanding men.
1) Men are more sensitive emotionally than women.
This may sound like a contradiction in terms, as men appear to convey an outwardly strong exterior.
However, men do not have the same ability to deal with and overcome an emotional trauma as women do.
As a result, men keep their emotions inside and do not express them.
When a man hears that he should try to let his feelings out, he fears that if he does, he will not be able to control them.
2) Men hate arguments and confrontation.
Conflict is not a problem needing to be solved.
For a man, conflict means that one person has to win and the other has to lose.
Any problem is better resolved when there is no emotion attached, which is not as threatening to them.
If emotions do become involved a man will struggle to contain his emotions and so withdraw and become silent.
They do not do this as a punishment.
Rather they are desperately trying to keep themselves under control.
3) Men want to get married.
No matter how modern a man is in his thinking, most men still want to get married.
Men do not enjoy being lonely and being single is appealing but lonely.
Finding a woman that a man can trust is as important to him as finding a beautiful woman.
A man also looks for other qualities in a woman.
Only one of them is about how she looks on the outside.
Surprisingly enough, one thing that attracts a man to a woman is confidence.
A woman who is attractive outside and inside will be irresistible to him.
Understanding men begins by becoming aware of how he thinks and these three things are a start in helping a woman in her relationship with her man.