It's been a good few weeks that you've had this feeling that your marriage is falling apart, but each time you think about it, you reckon that it must be your imagination.
Okay, so there's tension in your home, but you're both tired, so a good night's sleep will sort things out.
In any case, you just don't have time to think about that now - your job has become so demanding, that you bring work home - most nights.
My friend, you and your spouse have got problems that won't simply go away if you don't think about them.
It's obvious that your marriage is falling apart, and if you still love each other, something should be done to fix your problems immediately, or the divorce court is the next stop.
If there's tension between you and your spouse, something is wrong.
If you are both too tired to bother about the state of your marriage, then something is wrong.
If you don't have time to think about your troubled marriage because of work, then very definitely, something is wrong! You and your spouse HAVE to sit down and talk things over before it is too late.
Whatever is happening in your lives that is preventing you from spending quality time with each other, has very definitely got to be sorted out.
If your work is becoming overloaded, then simply don't bring it home anymore - your office can employ someone else - they are obviously understaffed.
If you are spending too much time with your friends, then so be it - friends must be put on hold for a while - your marriage is falling apart and you have to MAKE time for each other.
You and your spouse are important to each other - more important than your work or friends, so make yourselves top priority from now on, and spend some good, quality time together as much as possible if you want to save your marriage.