Approaching Women
For most guys approaching a beautiful women is hard enough, the social pressure, the fear of rejection.
It's hard, and every guy struggles with it, it's a universal problem.
What's really important is that guys realise they will most likely will get shot down from time to time, it's unavoidable, but in the process they'll realise something else too.
Rejection isn't that bad and fortunately there are tips to help a man show off his best self to really get the girl but first you have to get used to approaching women.
In a minute I'll go over the fundamental steps, that I know are needed, when you first approach.
Firstly I'd like to mention that I've checked out around a hundred different dating sites, I've scoured the internet and most of what I found has been a rip off or boils down to just being yourself.
How does that help when being yourself isn't getting you the girl? Romance these days has been the subject of many a hollywood movie, you yourself may have preconceived ideas about what it takes to win over the girl of your dreams, most likely however you've been misinformed, the truth is it's really much easier to meet local singles in person without any problems and with a low chance of rejection.
However, it's just as easy to end up on a scam site, or paying for internet dating.
These services actually hinder your ability to meet more women.
My first bit of advice is that you can meet all the women you want to out in your city.
Into night life? Then bars and clubs are your best bet, if you are more reserved then try a coffee shop or book store.
You see the secret is this: you can meet women ANYWHERE and approach women ANYWHERE! Sounds very obvious doesn't it? The world is your sandbox to meet and interact with the women you choose.
Now I'm not saying that this will be easy, for many this will be completely out of your comfort zone, that's why I'm going to give you a tip right here, right now.
Let's say you are at that bar, you spy a group of girls.
You have to approach the whole group, but how do you start a conversation? Walk up, confident with a smile on your face and say: "You guys look friendly, I had to come over and say hi!" If that sounds too daunting for you, there is another way, walk up to the group and ask them a question.
Such as: "Hey gals, real quick, me and my friend have a bet on, who lies more men or women?" This will get you used to talking to groups of women without forcing you too make too much conversation yourself at first.
It's hard, and every guy struggles with it, it's a universal problem.
What's really important is that guys realise they will most likely will get shot down from time to time, it's unavoidable, but in the process they'll realise something else too.
Rejection isn't that bad and fortunately there are tips to help a man show off his best self to really get the girl but first you have to get used to approaching women.
In a minute I'll go over the fundamental steps, that I know are needed, when you first approach.
Firstly I'd like to mention that I've checked out around a hundred different dating sites, I've scoured the internet and most of what I found has been a rip off or boils down to just being yourself.
How does that help when being yourself isn't getting you the girl? Romance these days has been the subject of many a hollywood movie, you yourself may have preconceived ideas about what it takes to win over the girl of your dreams, most likely however you've been misinformed, the truth is it's really much easier to meet local singles in person without any problems and with a low chance of rejection.
However, it's just as easy to end up on a scam site, or paying for internet dating.
These services actually hinder your ability to meet more women.
My first bit of advice is that you can meet all the women you want to out in your city.
Into night life? Then bars and clubs are your best bet, if you are more reserved then try a coffee shop or book store.
You see the secret is this: you can meet women ANYWHERE and approach women ANYWHERE! Sounds very obvious doesn't it? The world is your sandbox to meet and interact with the women you choose.
Now I'm not saying that this will be easy, for many this will be completely out of your comfort zone, that's why I'm going to give you a tip right here, right now.
Let's say you are at that bar, you spy a group of girls.
You have to approach the whole group, but how do you start a conversation? Walk up, confident with a smile on your face and say: "You guys look friendly, I had to come over and say hi!" If that sounds too daunting for you, there is another way, walk up to the group and ask them a question.
Such as: "Hey gals, real quick, me and my friend have a bet on, who lies more men or women?" This will get you used to talking to groups of women without forcing you too make too much conversation yourself at first.