Since the two of you first met online, you have bent over backwards to try and make this work! You know I'm not the first person to tell you he's not the one! You have seen signs that won't go away, and all of them are telling you he's not the one.
Stop and think about it...
He openly denies his children...
until tax season! What makes you think he is going to care for yours? Do you want to know how he is going to treat you and your children? Exactly how he treated his ex and his/her children.
Trust me he's not the one! We as women often hope and pray that we will be the magical elixir this man needs.
We are going to perform a miracle that no one before use has been able to perform! I think deep down inside? We know we can't...
While you are struggling to take care of your obligations, he adds to your financial burden by requesting things he really doesn't need.
And to make it worse, you do it...
then get mad.
I think you should Not do it...
AND Not get mad! We can control our own finances...
that is nothing to get mad about.
We often give men things we can't afford.
Then we take on an "I've been robbed!" attitude.
The mistakes we make online are no doubt the same mistakes we have made offline.
We need to address what makes us want to try to force "extremely damaged" men into a perfect relationship.
Everyone you know, and don't know has told you repeatedly: he is not the one! Move on...
make better choices! You deserve "the Right one"!