Is Faking an Orgasm Really Bad?
Is faking an orgasm a bad idea? Am I not honest to my boyfriend if I fake it? I sometime fake it and most of my friends say they do, too.
My boyfriend loves baseball games and he often takes me to the stadium.
I don't really care for baseball much and I don't even know the names of most players.
Even though I don't care, I cheer with people around and I like to jump up and down when they make a great play.
Why do I do it? It is more fun and I feel excited when I jump around or join the big wave.
Even on the day I was so tired and did not want to go to the game, when I started to scream and jump around with people around me, I feel more energetic and excited.
If I just sit there and keep quiet, then I would get bored and probably fall asleep.
Sex is something similar to having fun at a ball game.
How would you feel if your partner is so quiet and show no emotion while having a sex, just lying on the bed and doing nothing.
It is so much fun to make a little loud noise and scream a bit when you like it.
Just get involved and take some action if you feel good.
You can tell him how good you feel when he touches you or does things in a particular way.
Once he knows what you enjoy, he will do more of that for you next time.
I know some women are little too shy to tell her partner what she likes during sex.
You don't have to be so shy.
Make some noise, squeeze his body, move your lower body, or press your private parts against him.
You can tell him, "softer", "faster" or "don't move" in a soft tone to tell him that he is doing just great.
It is not a good idea to have a long conversation during sex because it breaks the good mood.
Don't say anything negative such as "I don't like it!" unless you must.
If he is doing something that makes you uncomfortable, one way you can do is to move or shift your body, move his hand or head and let him know that you like this different position better.
If you are not having an orgasm, then you don't have to lie and tell him that you are.
If you are having a good time without an orgasm, you can make noise and move as if you were having an orgasm.
Your partner knows that you are having a good time and he will not ask you if you had an orgasm.
If he keeps asking you, it is really bothering, right? Sometimes, hearing yourself making noise, you get more excited and might even have an orgasm.
My boyfriend loves baseball games and he often takes me to the stadium.
I don't really care for baseball much and I don't even know the names of most players.
Even though I don't care, I cheer with people around and I like to jump up and down when they make a great play.
Why do I do it? It is more fun and I feel excited when I jump around or join the big wave.
Even on the day I was so tired and did not want to go to the game, when I started to scream and jump around with people around me, I feel more energetic and excited.
If I just sit there and keep quiet, then I would get bored and probably fall asleep.
Sex is something similar to having fun at a ball game.
How would you feel if your partner is so quiet and show no emotion while having a sex, just lying on the bed and doing nothing.
It is so much fun to make a little loud noise and scream a bit when you like it.
Just get involved and take some action if you feel good.
You can tell him how good you feel when he touches you or does things in a particular way.
Once he knows what you enjoy, he will do more of that for you next time.
I know some women are little too shy to tell her partner what she likes during sex.
You don't have to be so shy.
Make some noise, squeeze his body, move your lower body, or press your private parts against him.
You can tell him, "softer", "faster" or "don't move" in a soft tone to tell him that he is doing just great.
It is not a good idea to have a long conversation during sex because it breaks the good mood.
Don't say anything negative such as "I don't like it!" unless you must.
If he is doing something that makes you uncomfortable, one way you can do is to move or shift your body, move his hand or head and let him know that you like this different position better.
If you are not having an orgasm, then you don't have to lie and tell him that you are.
If you are having a good time without an orgasm, you can make noise and move as if you were having an orgasm.
Your partner knows that you are having a good time and he will not ask you if you had an orgasm.
If he keeps asking you, it is really bothering, right? Sometimes, hearing yourself making noise, you get more excited and might even have an orgasm.