When Your Marriage is Over Should You Call it Quits Or Work to Repair it?
Though some say that they knew it pretty early on that their marriage was not working out, some couples are not that lucky. They fail to recognize the early signs of a marriage going sour and actually wake up when it is too late in the day for retrieval. But the main question still remains that when your marriage is over, what role should you play? Should you call it quits or give it another try to put it back on tracks?
It is nearly impossible to give any 'right' answer to this question. You and your spouse are the best deciders in this situation. Whatever be your specific case, the good news is that you can actually put it back on tracks, when your marriage is over. But the first and only pre-requisite for this to happen is that BOTH of you must be equally keen to set things right again.
There is one important point to remember, however, before you start to rebuild your failing marriage. You must be absolutely sure regarding the reasons for the failure of the relationship. When your marriage is over, there is no room for guesswork, regarding why it happened. Unless you are sure why your marriage is over you would forever be groping in the dark to find solutions to repair it.
A few of the common signs to tell you when your marriage is over include: total breakdown of communication or even if there is some amount of exchange of words, it is regarding children, finance and other issues which are common to both of you. There is neither any intimacy nor any cordiality in the conversations you have with your spouse.
The other tell-tale sign to confirm when your marriage is over is the lack of interest that your spouse has in you or the home. Neither does he or she give you any time nor takes any interest in an activity which includes you. Both of you are living as two separate entities, even though you may be sharing the same bed!
You know when your marriage is over when both of you live together not as best friends but more as staunch enemies, where you are trying to outperform the other in every respect. Every thing done and every word said by your spouse irritates or antagonizes you and vice versa. That is the time you know that your marriage is over.
Love and respect of each other is critical to put your marriage back on tracks. If both of you are keen to continue with the marriage, it is time to open up blocked channels of communication, forgive and forget the past and start the relationship with a fresh and positive mind.
It is nearly impossible to give any 'right' answer to this question. You and your spouse are the best deciders in this situation. Whatever be your specific case, the good news is that you can actually put it back on tracks, when your marriage is over. But the first and only pre-requisite for this to happen is that BOTH of you must be equally keen to set things right again.
There is one important point to remember, however, before you start to rebuild your failing marriage. You must be absolutely sure regarding the reasons for the failure of the relationship. When your marriage is over, there is no room for guesswork, regarding why it happened. Unless you are sure why your marriage is over you would forever be groping in the dark to find solutions to repair it.
A few of the common signs to tell you when your marriage is over include: total breakdown of communication or even if there is some amount of exchange of words, it is regarding children, finance and other issues which are common to both of you. There is neither any intimacy nor any cordiality in the conversations you have with your spouse.
The other tell-tale sign to confirm when your marriage is over is the lack of interest that your spouse has in you or the home. Neither does he or she give you any time nor takes any interest in an activity which includes you. Both of you are living as two separate entities, even though you may be sharing the same bed!
You know when your marriage is over when both of you live together not as best friends but more as staunch enemies, where you are trying to outperform the other in every respect. Every thing done and every word said by your spouse irritates or antagonizes you and vice versa. That is the time you know that your marriage is over.
Love and respect of each other is critical to put your marriage back on tracks. If both of you are keen to continue with the marriage, it is time to open up blocked channels of communication, forgive and forget the past and start the relationship with a fresh and positive mind.