Serious relationships are the hardest to get over.
This is probably because you have invested so much time and emotions to one another.
When a couple breaks up, it seems as though all those investments find their way in the garbage can, useless and wasted.
Then again, break ups or occasional cool - offs does not have to be final.
If you feel that the relationship is worth saving, then maybe you should save it.
Swallow your pride and make the first move.
To help you out, here are 3 tips to win the ex back.
1.
Win him back with dignity and self - respect.
Begging for his forgiveness and presenting yourself in a state of devastation is just an affirmation that letting you go is perhaps the best for both of you.
So cry if you must but do not let yourself dwell in misery for days.
Go out and circulate.
You can also visit a salon and make yourself look good.
Doing so will make him respect your independence and strength more.
2.
Keep yourself updated but do not stalk.
It is fine to want to know how he is or what has he been doing.
But the means of collecting information should also be dignified.
Do not stalk or go on asking everybody about him.
Keep the communication lines open.
If you need to know something, you better get it from him.
3.
Be more receptive and sensitive to his needs.
Know what went wrong and let him know that this time, you are willing to adjust for him.