It is known that it takes more time for most women to reach orgasm than it does for men.
This leads to a situation where many women hardly ever reach a climax, let alone an intense orgasm.
This article will discuss some tips you can follow to help you get a woman to orgasm.
First things First The first thing that needs said is that every woman is different, so these tips may or may not work for your woman.
This means that one of the best ways you can help her reach climax is to have an open line of communication with your woman.
Taking the time to talk with your lover and learn what she does and does not like is one of the best ways to help her reach an intense climax on a regular basis.
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Get Your Sex life off the Clock Most women understand that men reach orgasm long before they will.
This creates a situation where women worry about reaching climax before their partner.
This makes many women self-conscious.
This makes it even harder for them to climax.
Let your lover know there is no time limit on your lovemaking.
Tell her that you are in it for the long run and that you have no trouble with her long build-up.
This will allow both of you to stop worrying about orgasms; you can concentrate on enjoying each other.
When a woman can relax, she is more likely to experience an explosive orgasm.
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Turn Her On Getting your woman to reach an intense orgasm starts long before either of you remove your clothes.
You need to be working with her to reach orgasm for the entire time you are with her.
This means you need to keep yourself clean and neat as poor hygiene is a huge turn off for women.
You also need to keep her entertained, laughing, and in a good mood.
There are many ways to do this; it is up to you to find out what works for your woman.
Some ladies like humor, some like a man that will sing karaoke, and others like their men to be good at games of skill such as pool or darts.
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Let Her Know you Love to see Her Naked No matter how good a woman looks, many of them are self-conscious about how they look when they are naked.
It is up to you to let your lover know exactly how beautiful she is when naked.
This will go a long way to helping her relax in your presence, which in turn will help them have an orgasm in less time once you start making love.
This is a time when flattery will pay off.
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Be Tender This is especially true with a woman's breast.
Many men have the misconception that women enjoy having their breasts handled roughly.
In actuality, most women prefer their breasts to be handled gently.
Again, this is one of the things you can learn about your woman with an open line of communication.
By talking with her, you can quickly determine if she likes handled roughly, easily, or somewhere in the middle.
When you learn to handle her breasts properly, you will find that it will go far in helping her reach orgasm.
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Learn Her Strokes When speaking of strokes we are speaking of manual stimulation of her clitoris.
Manually stimulating a woman's clitoris is much like handling her breasts.
Each woman will enjoy something different.
Most women will appreciate a gentle touch while some may like things a little more intense.
Finding out what your lover likes in the way of manual stimulation will allow you to help her reach an intense orgasm.
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Play the Game of Angles Part of the fun of love making and learning what works best for the both of you is exploration.
Try different positions and angles while making love to find the way that makes her reach and intense orgasm.
This is another area where talking with your partner about what she likes can be very beneficial.
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Multitask To help your lover have a better orgasm, and get there faster, increase that amount of contact you use with her most sensitive areas.
Learn positions and methods of foreplay that will allow you to be in contact with more than one of her sensitive areas at one time.
If you can massage her breasts and clitoris at the same time you will be doubling her pleasure and increase her chances of reaching climax.
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Get into Rhythm with Her Orgasm When it comes to making love you and her need to be in rhythm.
For instance, when performing oral sex ease into it, do not just attack.
Remember, gently taking your time with her will help her reach an intense orgasm.
Start oral sex by caressing her inner thighs, and her inner and outer lips gently with your mouth and tongue.
As she starts to react to this, move inside of her with your tongue and start using strokes that are firmer and longer.
Keep an eye on her hips, this will give you a clue as to the rhythm she likes.
You should also listen for gasps and moans, this will tell you if your tactics are working or if you should start trying something new.
Another way of knowing when she is close to climaxing is to watch her labia, the color will deepen with the increased blood flow.
You can also put a hand on her stomach and feel for the muscle contractions that precede an orgasm.
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Let Her Lead Once you feel that she is nearing orgasm, keep doing what you are doing.
If you decide to switch tactics just before she reaches climax it could be like hitting an off switch.
Even if she is right on the brink of orgasm one wrong move could make it so she does not reach climax at all.
Remember women are not like men.
When a man reaches climax there is not much that will stop them from ejaculating.
With a woman, reaching climax can be stopped short in an instant by the smallest thing.
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Ladies First While it can be very exciting and enjoyable for both of you to reach climax simultaneously this just does not happen very often.
If you want to ensure that your woman reaches orgasm, let her climax first.
If possible, get her to orgasm before intercourse as penetration can desensitize her clitoris, which will ruin her chance of reaching climax.
Once she is satisfied then you can begin intercourse.
One thing you can look forward to is that once a woman has her first orgasm it will be easier for her to reach orgasm again.