Marriage Problems? Help That Works!
Thousands today are looking for marriage problems help.
The divorce rate is sky-rocketing, leaving broken hearts in its wake and the children as victims with no idea of what a healthy marriage relationship is.
Then this vicious cycle perpetuates itself into the next generation.
This is a recent and destructive pattern that you and your children do not have to be a victim of! Back in the late 40s and 50s, when I was a youngster, divorce was seldom heard of.
Why? They followed some very basic healthy-relationship principles that, if you put into practice will help your marriage too.
I guarantee it! How can I guarantee such a thing? My wife and I are happily married and still in love after 44 years of marriage.
These are the very same principles that we live by AND THEY WORK! Forget about all the self-centered and sex-focused ideas of what the movie industry is portraying love as.
Real love has nothing to do with that gushy feeling that you get in the first months of that relationship with the one you "love.
" That kind of love fizzles at the slightest whim and can be shifted from person to person without a twinge of conscience.
That's why Hollywood has a history of infidelity and divorce, which now has contaminated our society.
Hollywood's kind of love has no commitment or sacrifice to it.
Hollywood's kind of love is focused on what I can get and on beautiful looks and bodies.
What happens when the body changes or someone with better looks comes along? Adios! Wouldn't you rather give and receive love that says, "I love you because you are you, and I am committed to you through thick and thin?" Wouldn't you rather have and give a love that does not change when things get tough.
Wouldn't you rather have a love that says, "It's you and me sweetheart...
I am committed you and to meet your needs for the rest of our lives, because I LOVE YOU!" The following marriage problems help principles work best if both you and your spouse are involved.
But if that is not possible, apply them on your own.
I have seen many individuals save their marriage because they were willing to be the ones who started the process.
So what are some of the principles that create this king of love? Put Your Spouse Before Yourself Calm down, calm down, and hear me out.
I know is a strange thought to many people, but it works.
You do want me to give you marriage problems help that will work, right? Selfish marriages will never work! However, when you have two people who will commit to making the other person happy at their own expense, the magic happens.
Both person's needs are being met by the other person.
This does wonderful thing to the heart.
A strange thing feeling comes over you.
You both start feeling loved! Show Your Love Real love is not a feeling.
Feeling loved is the result of being loved.
Real love can be seen.
Real love is as tangible as a bouquet of flowers or a husband's favorite meal.
Real love is a choice to sacrifice your time and comfort for the good of your spouse.
When you are loved like this, you know you are loved.
Each time I open the door for my wife, I am saying, "I love you.
" Each time my wife gets me a cup of coffee, she is saying, "I love you.
" Oh, how I hope you get this! This principle is a must for a happy, lasting marriage.
Verbalize Your Love I put "verbalize your love" last for a reason.
If your spouse doesn't feel important to you and if you don't show that you love your spouse, your "I love you's" will be hollow and resented.
However, once you have been showing your spouse that you really love them, the "I love you's" are sweet and meaningful.
The divorce rate is sky-rocketing, leaving broken hearts in its wake and the children as victims with no idea of what a healthy marriage relationship is.
Then this vicious cycle perpetuates itself into the next generation.
This is a recent and destructive pattern that you and your children do not have to be a victim of! Back in the late 40s and 50s, when I was a youngster, divorce was seldom heard of.
Why? They followed some very basic healthy-relationship principles that, if you put into practice will help your marriage too.
I guarantee it! How can I guarantee such a thing? My wife and I are happily married and still in love after 44 years of marriage.
These are the very same principles that we live by AND THEY WORK! Forget about all the self-centered and sex-focused ideas of what the movie industry is portraying love as.
Real love has nothing to do with that gushy feeling that you get in the first months of that relationship with the one you "love.
" That kind of love fizzles at the slightest whim and can be shifted from person to person without a twinge of conscience.
That's why Hollywood has a history of infidelity and divorce, which now has contaminated our society.
Hollywood's kind of love has no commitment or sacrifice to it.
Hollywood's kind of love is focused on what I can get and on beautiful looks and bodies.
What happens when the body changes or someone with better looks comes along? Adios! Wouldn't you rather give and receive love that says, "I love you because you are you, and I am committed to you through thick and thin?" Wouldn't you rather have and give a love that does not change when things get tough.
Wouldn't you rather have a love that says, "It's you and me sweetheart...
I am committed you and to meet your needs for the rest of our lives, because I LOVE YOU!" The following marriage problems help principles work best if both you and your spouse are involved.
But if that is not possible, apply them on your own.
I have seen many individuals save their marriage because they were willing to be the ones who started the process.
So what are some of the principles that create this king of love? Put Your Spouse Before Yourself Calm down, calm down, and hear me out.
I know is a strange thought to many people, but it works.
You do want me to give you marriage problems help that will work, right? Selfish marriages will never work! However, when you have two people who will commit to making the other person happy at their own expense, the magic happens.
Both person's needs are being met by the other person.
This does wonderful thing to the heart.
A strange thing feeling comes over you.
You both start feeling loved! Show Your Love Real love is not a feeling.
Feeling loved is the result of being loved.
Real love can be seen.
Real love is as tangible as a bouquet of flowers or a husband's favorite meal.
Real love is a choice to sacrifice your time and comfort for the good of your spouse.
When you are loved like this, you know you are loved.
Each time I open the door for my wife, I am saying, "I love you.
" Each time my wife gets me a cup of coffee, she is saying, "I love you.
" Oh, how I hope you get this! This principle is a must for a happy, lasting marriage.
Verbalize Your Love I put "verbalize your love" last for a reason.
If your spouse doesn't feel important to you and if you don't show that you love your spouse, your "I love you's" will be hollow and resented.
However, once you have been showing your spouse that you really love them, the "I love you's" are sweet and meaningful.