Making Love to a Woman the Right Way
Making love to a woman the right way begins long before you go into the bedroom. Foreplay can start many hours before. Your focus needs to be on lovemaking and being in love. Doing special little things for and with them, will put them in mood. They say those special candle light dinners for two can help to set the mood right. Running a hot bath for your lover to soak in and relax, will all help.
If you use the old wham bam thank you m'am technique, then that is all you will get. Rushing good love-making will not work. You have to be gentle and soft, and slow and rhythmic, plus it needs to be sensual. This applies to both men and women, far to often men want to rush and spoil it all. So to you men reading this, slow down, way down. You will have to fight the urge to rush when things are getting heated up. Women, have many different sensitive spots all over their bodies and you will need to gentle touch different places to find out where your partners sensuous spots are. Each person different, so no hard rule applies here.
If you are not sure where your partner's sex places are, simple answer, ask them, they might know. If not here is a basic guidelines, they don't always work for everybody.
On either side of the neck just below the ears, some men and women find gentle kisses very arousing.
Some like their ears nibbled and others will pull away from you being annoyed.
Lots of soft kisses in the small of the back and up and down their spin, also around the scapula and just under it. Sorry lay definition of scapula is the 2 big triangular bones in the upper back.
Getting down to the more erotic spots is the bottom and in around the insides of the thighs.
For the women, don't touch the clitoris, directly straight away, linger a bit and make the anticipation even more higher.
When you first touch the clitoris, just brush it gently and softly and slowly. Kissing softly in theses areas will excite most women.
massaging the clitoris directly can be a bit of a skill, you need to read your partners body language noises they make and the thrusting they do. look for it starting to swell and and softly rub it in a circular motion, again, watch for how fast you need to be going. Keep special attention as to if it is wet enough, you find a small supply in the vagina area, If it is a large amount then you're lovemaking efforts have not been in vain. Use this to keep the clitoris wet. When your lover climaxes this rubbing can go from absolute pleaser to sudden pain, it gets too much and becomes irritating, so look out for this and you need to stop. To help your lover while she is still climaxing sometimes just one or two fingers on the clitoris with gentle downward pressure can make it even more intense for them. Don't start massaging again, you will only irritate them.
In conclusion I would like to say you need to work out are you making love and giving to your partner, or are you having sex and getting what you want. Making love to a woman the right way, takes practice and skill. Not all women have achieved an orgasm, but I believe most can. I have only ever meet one woman who could not make an orgasm, and she had a lot of sexual abuse in her past and I think it was very difficult for her to ever trust a man again. Orgasms are apart of a mental and physical state where dopamine is produced, which increases the pleasure centres responses. It takes a lot of positives to make a partner ready for love-making, so build on positive talk, and you will be ready for making love to a woman the right way.
If you use the old wham bam thank you m'am technique, then that is all you will get. Rushing good love-making will not work. You have to be gentle and soft, and slow and rhythmic, plus it needs to be sensual. This applies to both men and women, far to often men want to rush and spoil it all. So to you men reading this, slow down, way down. You will have to fight the urge to rush when things are getting heated up. Women, have many different sensitive spots all over their bodies and you will need to gentle touch different places to find out where your partners sensuous spots are. Each person different, so no hard rule applies here.
If you are not sure where your partner's sex places are, simple answer, ask them, they might know. If not here is a basic guidelines, they don't always work for everybody.
massaging the clitoris directly can be a bit of a skill, you need to read your partners body language noises they make and the thrusting they do. look for it starting to swell and and softly rub it in a circular motion, again, watch for how fast you need to be going. Keep special attention as to if it is wet enough, you find a small supply in the vagina area, If it is a large amount then you're lovemaking efforts have not been in vain. Use this to keep the clitoris wet. When your lover climaxes this rubbing can go from absolute pleaser to sudden pain, it gets too much and becomes irritating, so look out for this and you need to stop. To help your lover while she is still climaxing sometimes just one or two fingers on the clitoris with gentle downward pressure can make it even more intense for them. Don't start massaging again, you will only irritate them.
In conclusion I would like to say you need to work out are you making love and giving to your partner, or are you having sex and getting what you want. Making love to a woman the right way, takes practice and skill. Not all women have achieved an orgasm, but I believe most can. I have only ever meet one woman who could not make an orgasm, and she had a lot of sexual abuse in her past and I think it was very difficult for her to ever trust a man again. Orgasms are apart of a mental and physical state where dopamine is produced, which increases the pleasure centres responses. It takes a lot of positives to make a partner ready for love-making, so build on positive talk, and you will be ready for making love to a woman the right way.