Your lover has broken up with you, but you think you still have a chance to turn things around.
If so, you should not spend too much of your time sulking and just get on with it.
But where do you start? Here are 4 sure shot ways to pull your ex back towards you.
Avoid communicating - This is only temporary, of course.
Use this time to reflect on past arguments and to allow your ex to think about your relationship.
If your past together is mostly good times, then there is a good chance that your ex will entertain the notion of getting back together.
Love yourself - Make sure that you take good care of yourself first, before even thinking about trying to get back together with your ex.
Focus on your career, maybe get promoted at work (if possible), make lots of new friends, maybe even start dating again.
Once your ex realizes how exciting and attractive you have become without his or her presence, then your ex might regret ever leaving you in the first place.
Take baby steps - Once your absence had been felt, send your ex a text or give your ex a quick call just to say hello.
Try to act cool, like nothing bad had happened.
Make sure the communications are quick and sounds like your ex have just crossed your mind (even if the person has been running circles in your head).
Work your way back in slowly - Once you're on speaking terms with each other again, take it slowly.
Just concentrate on being friends and try not to go into what went wrong in the past or delve into each other's mistakes, because doing that will be a step in the wrong direction.
As soon as you leave the past where it is, it will be easier for the both of you to move on to another chance to live life together.