There comes a time when you just can't seem to move on ahead with someone new.
Even though the bitter memories of the breakup make you feel miserable, there seems to be no one else but your ex for you! If this is the case, use the following psychological tricks to lure your ex back into a relationship with you.
Pretend you can do without your ex.
You will have to be pretty smart in fooling your ex into believing that you are moving on! Don't allow your ex to see you pining for him/her.
You can do this by being short and sweet with him/her.
Don't ignore him/her totally but at the same time, don't give him/her your undivided attention.
Be the "belle of the ball" Your ex should be amazed at the transformation in you and even wonder if the reason is because you have found someone new.
If your ex has been harboring secret feelings for you, then this is going to make him/her jealous.
You will know for sure when he/she starts questioning others about you.
Get back your lost confidence! Use friends! If you are smart you will use old friends and common acquaintances to help you get together with your ex.
Close friends can be your best allies and can 'carry tales' and find out whether your ex still has feelings for you.
They can help in arranging parties and other meetings where you and your ex can be "thrown together"! Take it slow and easy.
There's no point rushing into things.
If you take the wrong step - you may live to regret it.
Both you and your ex need the time to get over the breakup.
Forcefully trying to pry your ex's arms open will not work.
Instead try to be there for him/her whenever he/she needs help.
Take every subtle opportunity you get to recall and reminiscence about the past.
Very soon you will learn to trust each other again.