How to Divorce a Sociopathic Spouse in Florida
- 1). Document instances of irresponsible or abusive behavior in as much detail as possible. Be aware that it is illegal in the state of Florida for either party to record conversations without the other's knowledge.
- 2). Plan your retreat quietly. It is wise to pick a random and unexpected location if possible; relocating to the home of a friend or family member may expose that person to considerable pressure as the sociopath counterattacks. If violence or threats of violence are a factor, contact law enforcement or violence prevention agencies and ask about safety suggestions or local resources. Be sure your preparations include gathering some cash and important documents for yourself and any children involved.
- 3). Retain legal counsel. A lawyer will be able to help you protect your rights and financial situation. Be sure you hire a lawyer with a basic comprehension of the issues surrounding sociopathy so that he will have some idea of the type of battle likely to ensue.
- 4). Have your attorney draw up a Marital Separation Agreement, addressing issues of property division, spousal support, child support, custody, division of debts, tax liability, pensions and other issues specific to your situation. If you and the other party can agree to terms, the separation agreement can be incorporated into the eventual court order.
- 5). File for divorce in circuit court, in either the county where the defendant resides or the county where you last resided together. Florida permits divorce on the grounds that the marriage is "irretrievably broken."
- 6). Communicate only through your attorney about the terms of the divorce settlement. If it should become necessary to establish communication about the practical details of visitation arrangements or other matters concerning children, use email as much as possible so that an electronic record will be created. Avoid all other contact and stay strictly on point.
- 7). Do not respond to provocation, whether the object is to make you angry enough to overreact or to entice you to return to the relationship.