Let"s Stop Your Divorce Together! Read on For Incredibly Crucial Tips For Saving Your Marriage
I'll get straight to the point when it comes to saving your marriage.
You cannot maintain a healthy marriage or save a dying one by drowning your spouse in endless self-sacrifice.
I know this because I was in a similar situation before and I was lucky to get myself out such a horrible state.
Let me explain what I mean by this.
Trying to talk your spouse out of getting a divorce by reaching compromises is not a good way of saving a marriage.
This might be okay if you are in a healthy marriage that may have fights here and there, but it most certainly does not work when your marriage is in serious trouble and your spouse wants to get a divorce.
Take my situation for instance.
My husband wanted to get a divorce whilst I wanted to save it.
He was very clear that he wanted to get a divorce and when I continually try to talk him out of it, it only seemed like I was begging.
I made it seem that I was only trying to reach a compromise every time.
This endless self-sacrifice to save your marriage will not work when your marriage is clearly dying.
It only takes you look desperate.
So what should you do in this situation? You need to learn how to play the game according to the rules.
Avoid begging and pleading at all costs because it will not bring back the love you once had when performing this desperate action.
Don't forget that people always want what they can't have so you have to show that you are independent and inaccessible at times.
Once I learned this I made my first step in saving my marriage.
The key to taking this step is to learn to not beg and plead to your spouse.
This is the first step on the way to making you a more attractive person - people want what they can't have.
If your spouse thinks you are easily "achievable", in his or her subconscious, this will make you a less attractive person.
Thus, what you need to do is to stop acting this way and do the opposite - play a bit more hard to get in order to shake your spouse's self confidence and make yourself more attractive.
You cannot maintain a healthy marriage or save a dying one by drowning your spouse in endless self-sacrifice.
I know this because I was in a similar situation before and I was lucky to get myself out such a horrible state.
Let me explain what I mean by this.
Trying to talk your spouse out of getting a divorce by reaching compromises is not a good way of saving a marriage.
This might be okay if you are in a healthy marriage that may have fights here and there, but it most certainly does not work when your marriage is in serious trouble and your spouse wants to get a divorce.
Take my situation for instance.
My husband wanted to get a divorce whilst I wanted to save it.
He was very clear that he wanted to get a divorce and when I continually try to talk him out of it, it only seemed like I was begging.
I made it seem that I was only trying to reach a compromise every time.
This endless self-sacrifice to save your marriage will not work when your marriage is clearly dying.
It only takes you look desperate.
So what should you do in this situation? You need to learn how to play the game according to the rules.
Avoid begging and pleading at all costs because it will not bring back the love you once had when performing this desperate action.
Don't forget that people always want what they can't have so you have to show that you are independent and inaccessible at times.
Once I learned this I made my first step in saving my marriage.
The key to taking this step is to learn to not beg and plead to your spouse.
This is the first step on the way to making you a more attractive person - people want what they can't have.
If your spouse thinks you are easily "achievable", in his or her subconscious, this will make you a less attractive person.
Thus, what you need to do is to stop acting this way and do the opposite - play a bit more hard to get in order to shake your spouse's self confidence and make yourself more attractive.