After the breakup your ex will be still nursing his/her hurt and will appear gruff if you have wronged him/her.
Once you realize your mistake and try to make up, you are met with stony silence and your efforts for a patch up make no headway.
You wonder if your ex has really left you for good or is he/she acting up.
Do not despair, these four tricks will instantly tell you if your ex still loves you.
Use the safety valve to let out the building pressure A sincere apology works much like a safety valve and releases the steam buildup.
However, apologize only if you have decided to mend your ways and have made a firm resolve to reform yourself.
A sincere apology will instantly melt all the anger and your ex will be more open to future overtures.
Reform Introspect as to what went wrong in your relationship.
If bad habits and late nights were the cause then seek professional help.
Give up smoking if that was the cause of the rift or get back in shape if you have become a slob.
In short you will need to honestly draw lessons from your failed relationship and reform yourself.
If your ex shows his/her approval at your efforts then he/she still likes you.
No badmouthing please! Always speak highly of your ex when you are in the company of common friends.
Do not forget to mention that your ex was responsible for all that you have achieved thus far.
Whenever you meet up with your ex's family do enquire about your ex's well being and impress upon them that you still care for your ex.
Word will soon travel to your ex and maybe he/she will call you up to ask about you.
This is an indication that your ex still likes you Still single If after the breakup your ex still maintains his/her single status, then you are still on his/her mind.
They are just giving you sufficient time to straighten up before they take you back.