What Men Want In A Woman No 67: Privileges
What men want in a woman is someone who knows how to give privileges.
This concept is important and goes hand in hand with the idea that men want to be controlled are looking for women who know how to be masters.
There is something powerful at work when it comes to allowing men to do certain things.
The woman who masters the act of giving privileges will find that her marriage will be stronger than ever before.
Giving your man privileges should never be abused.
It is a privilege in itself to give privileges so make sure you read through this article to learn more about the art of letting your man do things such that he respects and loves you more for it.
1.
The Permission Theory I was speaking to a business associate last night and he told me an interesting concept that I could apply to relationships.
When you're talking to someone and you frame it so that you're letting them do business with you, instead of asking for their business, you've got more authority over them.
So in a relationship, if you're asking a man to do something for you, try to make it seem like you're giving him the privilege of doing it for you.
To do this, try the Permission Theory.
Simply put, something along the lines of, "If you want, you're allowed to...
" before what you want.
No pressure on his part, but he'll feel compelled to do it.
2.
Incorporating It Into Everyday Life An important idea from this is that this sort of speech pattern can be incorporated into so many aspects of everyday behaviour that it can become normal.
The man will come to expect you to ask him to do things in this way.
Furthermore, this will make him more likely to ask things from you or at least let you know in advance that he's doing something, showing that there is that fair exchange of value through mutual respect.
3.
Taking It And Accepting It Something to be aware of is that you might actually also get asked to do things in this manner too.
I actually learned this technique from a mate of mine who was doing it to his wife.
Don't think you're above this technique.
It's nothing sneaky.
It's a way of asking your partner to do things with integrity.
Remember, it takes as much strength to follow as it does to lead.
What men want in a woman is someone who respects them enough to give them privileges and to realize that their lucky to even have the man in their life.
By employing the Permission Theory into everyday life, there will be a lot more love and respect to go around.
This concept is important and goes hand in hand with the idea that men want to be controlled are looking for women who know how to be masters.
There is something powerful at work when it comes to allowing men to do certain things.
The woman who masters the act of giving privileges will find that her marriage will be stronger than ever before.
Giving your man privileges should never be abused.
It is a privilege in itself to give privileges so make sure you read through this article to learn more about the art of letting your man do things such that he respects and loves you more for it.
1.
The Permission Theory I was speaking to a business associate last night and he told me an interesting concept that I could apply to relationships.
When you're talking to someone and you frame it so that you're letting them do business with you, instead of asking for their business, you've got more authority over them.
So in a relationship, if you're asking a man to do something for you, try to make it seem like you're giving him the privilege of doing it for you.
To do this, try the Permission Theory.
Simply put, something along the lines of, "If you want, you're allowed to...
" before what you want.
No pressure on his part, but he'll feel compelled to do it.
2.
Incorporating It Into Everyday Life An important idea from this is that this sort of speech pattern can be incorporated into so many aspects of everyday behaviour that it can become normal.
The man will come to expect you to ask him to do things in this way.
Furthermore, this will make him more likely to ask things from you or at least let you know in advance that he's doing something, showing that there is that fair exchange of value through mutual respect.
3.
Taking It And Accepting It Something to be aware of is that you might actually also get asked to do things in this manner too.
I actually learned this technique from a mate of mine who was doing it to his wife.
Don't think you're above this technique.
It's nothing sneaky.
It's a way of asking your partner to do things with integrity.
Remember, it takes as much strength to follow as it does to lead.
What men want in a woman is someone who respects them enough to give them privileges and to realize that their lucky to even have the man in their life.
By employing the Permission Theory into everyday life, there will be a lot more love and respect to go around.