How to Get Your Ex to Call You
A lot of the time one of the greatest hurdles in getting your ex back is just getting into some healthy, conflict-free contact.
Usually the biggest problem with this is avoiding putting yourself into an awkward and weakened position, and it can be hard to contact your ex without appearing this way.
There are ways though, that you can get him to call you and avoid all the discomfort and vulnerability.
It's all in your approach.
This is usually easiest if you can leave a message or some other way of not directly speaking to him in a conversation, that way you can script exactly what you're saying and not have to risk messing it up by having to adlib.
The key is to pique his interest, make him want to call you back.
Being ambiguous, but not overly so (that can backfire and just irritate him), is a great way to arouse his interest and make him want to know what you were talking about.
Sometimes "can you call me back, I had something I wanted to talk to you about" can be way more effective than any long-winded voicemail message that's been carefully crafted to convey your feelings while avoiding looking like a victim.
You shouldn't be interested in conveying your feelings at this point...
try instead to just make him want to call you back to find out what's up.
Once you get him on the phone though, it becomes a lot more serious that you say the right things.
If you mess up at this stage it could seriously hurt your chances of getting him back.
To find out exactly what you should say to improve your chances of getting him back, check out the site below for access to a load of information that can really help you get your life back together.
Usually the biggest problem with this is avoiding putting yourself into an awkward and weakened position, and it can be hard to contact your ex without appearing this way.
There are ways though, that you can get him to call you and avoid all the discomfort and vulnerability.
It's all in your approach.
This is usually easiest if you can leave a message or some other way of not directly speaking to him in a conversation, that way you can script exactly what you're saying and not have to risk messing it up by having to adlib.
The key is to pique his interest, make him want to call you back.
Being ambiguous, but not overly so (that can backfire and just irritate him), is a great way to arouse his interest and make him want to know what you were talking about.
Sometimes "can you call me back, I had something I wanted to talk to you about" can be way more effective than any long-winded voicemail message that's been carefully crafted to convey your feelings while avoiding looking like a victim.
You shouldn't be interested in conveying your feelings at this point...
try instead to just make him want to call you back to find out what's up.
Once you get him on the phone though, it becomes a lot more serious that you say the right things.
If you mess up at this stage it could seriously hurt your chances of getting him back.
To find out exactly what you should say to improve your chances of getting him back, check out the site below for access to a load of information that can really help you get your life back together.