Are you dying to find out if he loves you or is just playing with your heart? Has your relationship been going well, but you don't really know what he's feeling? Are you eager to turn this relationship into so much more and you're thinking of pushing him into thinking the same way you do? Guys can get pretty touchy when it comes to pushing them into anything, much less love.
Here's how you can get there without ruffling his feathers.
The fact that men take a long time to fall in love isn't necessarily a bad thing.
As a matter of fact, it's usually the woman who is a little too rushed to move things along.
Love takes time to really grow and it's not something that can be forced, faked or built on demand.
Many women will simply take in the cute face, the few smooth lines and a well-filled checklist and they think they're done.
They've found their man.
But you need to know him better than that and he realizes how well he needs to know you.
Trust that this process needs to take the time.
You might also want to consider the value of him telling you he loves you only after you've harassed him to do so.
Is it really what you want or is he just humoring you? Admit it.
You want him to really feel these emotions when he finally declares his love for you.
Pressure in a relationship, whether it's to be more romantic, to become more involved or to feel a wealth of emotions that simply aren't there yet is never a good direction in which to bring a romance.
Use fun, easy times together and a comfort zone he wants to go back to again and again and this will encourage him to open his heart.
And when he realizes that you're the woman who loves him for who he is, respects him and shows her admiration and appreciation of him, he'll realize that he's fallen in love with you.