The phone just went dead.
You don't know what to do your boyfriend just told you he wants to end your relationship.
Oh no! What should I do? Should I call him, text him how can I take this all in? You are feeling just terrible.
I have been there and done all the mistakes.
So I want to tell you what not to do because had I known earlier it would have saved me a lot of heart ache.
If you are experiencing a difficult time in your relationship and your boyfriend says he wants to call it quits, I'm going to give you 3 tips of what you should do in order for you to save your relationship.
These are not your typical suggestions, however they are recommended by well known T.
W.
Jackson who has helped thousands of couples get back together, even when they thought it was too late.
The first thing, which is probably the most difficult to do is to agree with your boyfriend (even if you really don't).
For instance, you could say to him something like this: "it's very hard for me to think that our relationship has come to this but I think you are right and that we need a break right now.
" Even if you don't agree, say this to him for he will feel validated.
The second thing is pursue your own interests and hobbies.
Get busy with things that give you pleasure and make you feel good.
You need to get back into other things you enjoy doing.
It'll lift up your spirits and really help you as an individual.
As a bonus it will make you more interesting to your ex for you are being productive and capable and not just someone who needs them.
The third thing is to think about what changed since you were first in this relationship.
What was it about you that your ex was so attracted to and felt was the reason he wanted to spend the rest of his life with you.
Sometimes over time we lose track of the big picture and need to refocus ourselves on our relationship.