While it is obvious that getting rid of jealousy from your relationship is the only way to deal with it, it is also true that for some reason so many of us still choose to live with jealousy day-in, day-out without doing anything about it.
The bottom line is this - if jealousy is a part of your relationship, get rid of it.
It does not mean that you can never feel jealous in a particular moment given your state of mind or maybe what is going on right then and there.
But it is foolhardy to think that you can live with jealousy in your relationship and still have any chance of that relationship being what you really want it to be.
So just in case you are still harboring any delusions about why you need to get rid of jealousy from your relationship, here are a 3 reasons that should wake you up.

1. Choosing to live with jealousy in your relationship is a choice of choosing to be miserable in your relationship.
   If you make that choice - granted it is not a conscious one but it is somewhere in your consciousness anyway - you make it impossible to find happiness in a place where you have already decided to tolerate misery.
   
2. Not seeking to get rid of jealousy will make you miserable.
   
3. If you are in a state of continuous misery, you cannot be in a state of love.
   The problem is not that you are feeling jealousy; the problem is you have somehow convinced yourself that the misery that accompany these emotions, you are prepared to live with.
   In that case, you had better realize that your relationship is no longer about love, but about your insecurities and these insecurities will only grow if you do not decide to get rid of the jealousy.
   
4. Emotional insecurity will breed emotional and personal insecurity.
   You cannot be confident about who you are if you are emotionally insecure.
   Where will the love come from if you are so emotionally insecure.
   
5. You are likely to become needy instead and needy is not attractive, it does not attract love.
   If you choose to live with constant feelings of jealousy, to not make the decision to rid your life of jealousy, then you are creating an environment for emotional insecurity to thrive, not love.
   
6. And while the emotions that arise from jealousy are had enough, the ones that are the result of emotional insecurity are likely to be worse in their effects on your personal life.
   The decision to get rid of jealousy from your relationship is a decision to make your relationship wholesome, loving and nurturing.
   

Deciding otherwise about jealousy is a losers' game and one you should have no desire to play.
Just start by making a conscious decision to get rid of the jealousy.