Being in a relationship for 9 years definitely opened up my eyes on a lot of things and I have had my fair share of heartbreaks in this relationship of mine.
It won't do you any good if you keep on feeling down, you need to find a way to healing a broken heart and I can gladly give you advice on how to get over a break up.
Firstly, you have to bear in mind that you are strong enough to move on in life no matter what circumstances beckons.
  A relationship is a two way street, however if one party is no longer interested in participating, the relationship will never work no matter how hard you try.
  Granted, your boyfriend or girlfriend broke up with you but that does not entirely mean that you cannot have a relationship again.
As a matter of fact, you could have a better one in the future who knows how to take care of your heart.
If you are in the phase of healing a broken heart, you have to be prepared to move on.
The most easiest way to this is to give back all of the 'gifts' you have given to each other in the past.
  Anything that reminds you of your ex must be disposed or boxed up until the pain recedes.
  Tell your ex that you don't want to see or talk to each other for some time.
Depending on how you can take it, it could be possible for both of you to be friends in the future.
For now though, you should avoid calling, texting, and emailing each other.
  By clearing him or her out of your mind, you are in a better position to move on.
This is an important step in healing a broken heart.