Have you noticed that some people seem to have EVERYTHING?Wealth, a happy family, love, adventure, and an optimistic, cheerful attitude?You know some of these fortunate, charmed people, right?They are dynamic and fun to be around, and attract people everywhere they go.
"Well, if I had all that stuff, I'd be cheerful too" , you might be thinking.
The truth is, many of us have the process backwards.
Do you think " When I am rich, or in the perfect relationship, or have my dream job...
I will be soooooo happy!" And meanwhile are you plugging away at an unhappy job or relationship, just waiting for something to change? What generates change?What generates happiness?And what are you doing to make sure your dream life is inevitable? If you are going through life dwelling on the things that you DON'T have, the things you CAN'T do, and the relationships that are not working in your life, what you will get is more of the same.
That's right.
What you focus on E X P A N D S .
It is the universal law of attraction, the more you dwell on something, the more of it you get! Now you may be thinking "I think about the dream home I want every day.
I've thought about it every day for a year, and I still live in an apartment.
" Good point.
Notice when you think of something you want, the key word is WANT.
Wanting is great because it lets us know where to place our focus.
Many people stop at wanting, but there is another step to manifesting your desires.
"I want" sends a message to yourself and the universe that you have a desire that is unfulfilled, the next steps in manifestation are to believe, FEEL, consciously create, and RECEIVE! This is how to do it: 1) Imagine what you are choosing to create in your life.
Imagine it vividly, with color, detail, and sound.
Be VERY SPECIFIC!If you leave out details, the universe will have to fill them in for you, and they may not be to your liking.
You can do this for material things, for your dream job, to create your ideal relationship, or for personality traits you choose to have, such as joy, courage, friendliness, generosity, patience, etc.
2)Now that you know exactly what you are creating, it is time to believe that you already have it.
This requires some practice, since it may appear to you that you do not actually have it yet.
I suggest that if you create it in detail in your imagination, you have already created it for yourself in universal energy, and it is already yours!WOW!Now take a moment to FEEL what it is like to have this dream come true.
Feel the emotions of gratitude, love, excitement, the adrenaline rush, maybe your temperature is rising and your heart is beating faster.
Feel what it is like having, and believe that you have it, it is yours, and get present to feelings of satisfaction and fulfillment.
Mmmhmmm, this feels GREAT!I did it!I created it! Give yourself a big hug and jump up and down for joy, smile, laugh out loud and CELEBRATE!Demonstrate to the universe that you know it is done, express gratitude, and be EMOTIONAL, the universe responds powerfully to emotion, this is your ticket to all of your dreams coming true! 3)Good work!Now that you have manifested your dreams, you will need to be an excellent receiver in order to allow them into your physical reality.
Many of us are great at giving, and less open to receiving.
Wanting is not receiving.
Receiving requires being OPEN, OPTIMISTIC, and AWARE.
When the universe offers you something, do you accept it?How about a dime on the sidewalk, do you pick it up and say thank you?What about a nickel?a penny?When your parents offer you gas money do you take it with grateful appreciation, or do you refuse with the message "I'm doing fine on my own"?When you are out to dinner and someone offers to pay for your meal, do you openly accept with gratitude and a huge smile?Or do you fight for the bill? Receiving requires openness, the willingness to receive and be nurtured, and to include others in your life and your dreams.
Practice being an open receiver.
Notice where you have been closing out or blocking opportunities for love, money, and joy.
When you become aware of situations where you have been closed, create a new way of being, and choose to be open.
Consider your relationships.
If you are choosing to create a new intimate relationship, you can practice receiving this kind of relationship every day by being generous in giving and receiving in your current relationships with co-workers, friends, and family.
Be generous with kind words, approval, and listening, and allow yourself to be nurtured by those around you.
Share yourself with them.
This will demonstrate to the universe that you are open and willing to receive a more intimate partner.
Are you inspired to create a harmonious relationship with your children or your parents?Tell them!Tell everyone, then allow it to be! Practice being an open receiver.
Being an excellent receiver will enable you to have anything your heart desires.
The universe will only provide you with your manifestations if you are open to receiving them! Daily affirmations will help you have your manifestations quicker.
The more often you affirm that you are grateful for having received the specific thing you want, the sooner you will have it.
Declare it out loud in the morning and evening.
Create a bulletin board or an area on a wall to place pictures that represent the things you choose to manifest in your life.
Visible is memorable, and each time you see the pictures you have placed there you will remember to put some energy into creating your reality.
Are you ready to do it?Well go ahead and get started, you have the power to create your ideal world, and you have the choice to start right now...
have fun!