Are you looking for ways to stop the shyness you feel whenever you're around guys? Are you holding back and letting that cute guy just walk on by because you just don't know what to say? Are you ready to put that shyness behind you and walk boldly to the man of your dreams and speak your mind? You're not alone in being tongue-tied in the face of a handsome man, but there are things you can do to get past it.
So, what are you afraid of, anyway? What is it exactly that's holding you back and keeping you from talking to him? Are you shy no matter the situation? Are you bold in any other aspect of your life, but not in front of that one man? Do you fear rejection or ridicule? If you've always been quiet and timid and it's just part of your make up, play on it instead of forcing yourself to be something you're not.
Keep the conversations you have with him easy and find topics to talk to him about ahead of time.
If you already know what to say, you won't be so shaky.
For women who are generally bold, they may sometimes just get so nervous in front of the man they desire that they spew out nonsense, barely thinking of what they're saying before they've said it.
Steel yourself into thinking that he is just another guy.
Anticipate the nerves you feel building up and be ready with an easy question or comment about him.
Think ahead and you'll be able to avoid, or limit the amount of nonsense chatter you're apt to let out.
But the real reason for most women basically comes down to a fear of rejection and ridicule.
No one wants to have the guy look at them with disdain, or turn away with disinterest.
To avoid this, simply make your approach non-confrontational and casual.
If you approach him as a casual acquaintance or friend, he can't reject you as a potential date or lover.
It's harder to be shy with a guy if you don't put the pressure on him or yourself of intimating that you're looking for a relationship.