Things to Avoid If You Don"t Want to Kill Your Chances to Win Your Ex Back!
You are desperate to win back your ex's heart and love.
This is completely understandable, and we've all been there.
However, there are many things that you can do that may seem like a good idea now but will ruin all chances of getting back together on the long run.
Read on if you are wondering why your ex doesn't want to contact you or if you feel like there is absolutely no way your ex will want you back.
First of all, you must realize that if you have indeed contacted them many times right after the break up and have ended them in arguments, then your relationship is as good as done.
You have probably fallen to all the errors that destroy a relationship.
Here are the common errors that will ruin a relationship.
You made incessant contact and desperate calls after a break up.
This is a great mistake that everybody makes.
You call them 3 times a day, checking how they're doing, and asking if they want to meet you to talk things over.
You text them when they hang up, and email them when they don't reply.
Things have gone so bad that you even tried to show up at their house every day to work things out.
This is not the normal attempts to show them that you miss them.
This is stalking.
Not only is this infringing upon their rights to privacy, it also makes them uncomfortable.
You apologized for all the things that went wrong.
Your ex wants it to be your fault and they want you to be sorry for what they think you've done wrong.
Sure, that is reasonable, but don't be a pushover and apologize for their mistakes too.
You tumbled into depression.
You avoid everybody-your family, your friends, your colleagues-and simply mope around at home.
You have withdrawn from society and live in your own little hole.
This is unhealthy and your ex doesn't like that.
Would you want a relationship with somebody who's always holed up at home and never takes showers in the first place? Exactly, you don't.
This won't work at helping you win back your ex.
If you have made these errors, you have probably ruined your chances to win back your ex.
With any luck, you will have learned a great lesson here.
Make sure that you don't rush things after a break up-it never works.
This is completely understandable, and we've all been there.
However, there are many things that you can do that may seem like a good idea now but will ruin all chances of getting back together on the long run.
Read on if you are wondering why your ex doesn't want to contact you or if you feel like there is absolutely no way your ex will want you back.
First of all, you must realize that if you have indeed contacted them many times right after the break up and have ended them in arguments, then your relationship is as good as done.
You have probably fallen to all the errors that destroy a relationship.
Here are the common errors that will ruin a relationship.
You made incessant contact and desperate calls after a break up.
This is a great mistake that everybody makes.
You call them 3 times a day, checking how they're doing, and asking if they want to meet you to talk things over.
You text them when they hang up, and email them when they don't reply.
Things have gone so bad that you even tried to show up at their house every day to work things out.
This is not the normal attempts to show them that you miss them.
This is stalking.
Not only is this infringing upon their rights to privacy, it also makes them uncomfortable.
You apologized for all the things that went wrong.
Your ex wants it to be your fault and they want you to be sorry for what they think you've done wrong.
Sure, that is reasonable, but don't be a pushover and apologize for their mistakes too.
You tumbled into depression.
You avoid everybody-your family, your friends, your colleagues-and simply mope around at home.
You have withdrawn from society and live in your own little hole.
This is unhealthy and your ex doesn't like that.
Would you want a relationship with somebody who's always holed up at home and never takes showers in the first place? Exactly, you don't.
This won't work at helping you win back your ex.
If you have made these errors, you have probably ruined your chances to win back your ex.
With any luck, you will have learned a great lesson here.
Make sure that you don't rush things after a break up-it never works.