Become the Alpha Male - 4 Point Strategy to Become THE Alpha Male
We've all been there.
You are at a party and there he is again - the life and sole of, the alpha male, the one that not only all the pretty girls flock to, but the guys treat him as if he were their best friend.
You, on the other hand, are a respectably smart and good looking guy but could never the be centre of attention like that.
Could you? My 4 point strategy to become the alpha male should certainly help you to do so.
1.
Join the adorning crowd You know the saying - keep your friends close and your enemies closer? It stands to reason that if you are going to usurp the leader you have to get close to him.
We're not going to do this behind his back, by whispering nasty things about him to other people at the party.
That won't work.
Join the crowd around him.
2.
Become his friend and ally We need to be subtle about toppling this guy from his throne.
Before we go in for the kill, get him to look upon you as a suitable foil for his repartee.
Laugh loudest at his jokes and anecdotes, agree with everything he says, and say things that would make the guy look better.
DO NOT go in there and immediately start putting him down and slagging him off.
Remember- the TRUE Alpha Male is not belligerent with people and does not try hard to dominate and prove you are better than someone else.
If you are unsure as to why, then check my blog (Become The Alpha Male), but essentially this would have the effect of making YOU look weak.
You need people to start thinking you too are a good guy, and we are using some of this Alpha Male's charisma to that effect.
3.
Closing in This is the start of the takeover! You are going to outshine the alpha in every way, yet still slightly sucking up to him.
He'll think he's made a new best friend and you have gone from standing alone at the opposite side of the room, to being one of the guys everyone wants to talk to and be with.
You can see some examples of how to do this in my blog - Become The Alpha Male.
4.
Finish him This is it.
We are now going to shift all the focus from him to you.
Use obstacle crusher such as Negative Compliments ("I like those, BUT...
"), Know the party, and focus on the highest ranking beta male.
Then you can proceed to overtake.
Like any situation in life, think through what you are going to do before you do it.
If you have covered many possible combination of what COULD happen in your mind, then you will be better prepared to tackle it in real life.
It's EXTREMELY IMPORTANT that this is done SUBTLELY.
If not, you will simply come across as spiteful and bitchy, which believe me, are not traits of the alpha male.
You are at a party and there he is again - the life and sole of, the alpha male, the one that not only all the pretty girls flock to, but the guys treat him as if he were their best friend.
You, on the other hand, are a respectably smart and good looking guy but could never the be centre of attention like that.
Could you? My 4 point strategy to become the alpha male should certainly help you to do so.
1.
Join the adorning crowd You know the saying - keep your friends close and your enemies closer? It stands to reason that if you are going to usurp the leader you have to get close to him.
We're not going to do this behind his back, by whispering nasty things about him to other people at the party.
That won't work.
Join the crowd around him.
2.
Become his friend and ally We need to be subtle about toppling this guy from his throne.
Before we go in for the kill, get him to look upon you as a suitable foil for his repartee.
Laugh loudest at his jokes and anecdotes, agree with everything he says, and say things that would make the guy look better.
DO NOT go in there and immediately start putting him down and slagging him off.
Remember- the TRUE Alpha Male is not belligerent with people and does not try hard to dominate and prove you are better than someone else.
If you are unsure as to why, then check my blog (Become The Alpha Male), but essentially this would have the effect of making YOU look weak.
You need people to start thinking you too are a good guy, and we are using some of this Alpha Male's charisma to that effect.
3.
Closing in This is the start of the takeover! You are going to outshine the alpha in every way, yet still slightly sucking up to him.
He'll think he's made a new best friend and you have gone from standing alone at the opposite side of the room, to being one of the guys everyone wants to talk to and be with.
You can see some examples of how to do this in my blog - Become The Alpha Male.
4.
Finish him This is it.
We are now going to shift all the focus from him to you.
Use obstacle crusher such as Negative Compliments ("I like those, BUT...
"), Know the party, and focus on the highest ranking beta male.
Then you can proceed to overtake.
Like any situation in life, think through what you are going to do before you do it.
If you have covered many possible combination of what COULD happen in your mind, then you will be better prepared to tackle it in real life.
It's EXTREMELY IMPORTANT that this is done SUBTLELY.
If not, you will simply come across as spiteful and bitchy, which believe me, are not traits of the alpha male.