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Sexy Traits That Increase the Likelihood of the Female Orgasm

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Let me tell you a story...
Once upon a time there was a young woman called Lucy.
It was time for her to get married.
She had many suitors.
There was John.
He was a brilliant doctor.
He was extremely intelligent, but a bit dull.
There was Quincy.
He was big, strong, courageous and adventurous, but a bit dim-witted.
Then there was Arthur.
He was extremely honourable, caring and Lucy's mother adored him, but he wasn't sexy.
Last of all, there was Dracula.
Dracula set off throbbing and aggressive sexual passions in Lucy, but he was bitter and twisted.
Lucy laughed at all these silly little boys.
Where could she find a man who had it all? Where could she find a man that could transform her into a real woman? Where could she find a real man who could satisfy her every need? Are you everything that your ideal woman wants? Most importantly, are you everything that your ideal woman NEEDS? What happens if you DON'T satisfy ONE of her needs? Don't focus on what women say they want because most times they have no idea or they lack the self-awareness to verbalise it.
Instead, focus on what they RESPOND to.
Attraction isn't a choice.
It's a response to certain traits.
Just like you can't help feeling attraction when you see a hot blonde with C cups.
You don't THINK to yourself, "Well, I see blonde hair and C cups, therefore I will turn myself on.
" Instead, certain things enter your mind through your senses and you AUTOMATICALLY feel attraction.
Women have a similar mechanism, but the triggers, the traits, are different.
Let me introduce you to those traits.
The Proven Scientific Truth About The Kind Of Men Women Desire Studies worldwide have shown that women want men who are ambitious, industrious, intelligent, dependable, creative, exciting and funny.
Women Want Champions Women want champions.
In the Amazonian Yanomamo tribe the men compete against each other by hitting each other in the head with a stick.
The last man standing gets laid.
Sometimes women incite competition between men and choose the winner.
A study of 200 tribal societies found that women prefer skills and prowess more than appearance.
They also preferred dominance, which is universally attractive.
Other studies have found that women prefer men who are tall, healthy, strong and confident.
These traits correlate with good hunting skills and good genes.
In hunter-gatherer societies, the best hunters are considered the most attractive men and they get the most sex.
Also, hunter-gatherer women prefer men who are the most charming, most respected and most intelligent.
Women Want Wealthy, Stable Men Other studies across many cultures found women want men who have or have the potential of wealth, status, durability and stability for partners.
They also preferred older men.
Women Want Sexy Seducers Who Have Slept With Many Women When women decide to have one-nights stands, they want men with the following traits: sexy, highly desirable to other women, desires sex with them, sensuous, physically attractive, good looking, sought after by other women, thinks they are sexy, and greatly desires them.
I know that some of those traits are the same but that's what the studies said.
The women were after sexy seducers who have slept with many women.
Women Want Strong Protectors Who Can Handle Themselves Around Other Men When women decide to have affairs, they want men with the following traits: Protective of her, physically fit, strong, muscular and athletic.
The women weren't looking for the Arnold Schwarzeneger types though.
The women were after a strong protectors who could handle themselves physically around other men.
Women Want Loving Providers For both affair partners and husbands, women want men with the following traits: dependable, affectionate, successful, emotionally stable, easygoing, intelligent, mature, faithful, honest, open minded and unselfish.
The women were after loving providers.
Women Want Men Who Make Them Feel Good About Themselves Women judged the following consequences of an affair to be most beneficial: "Affair partner made me feel better about myself than any other man had done", "I felt good about myself because my affair partner respected me", "Because my affair partner was interested in the details of my life, I felt good about myself when I was with him", "Because my affair partner was emotionally sensitive to me , my self-esteem increased" and "I was able to make better decisions about long-term partners because I felt good about myself.
" Women want men to make them feel good about themselves.
Women Focus On Their Feelings When They Fantasise Women focus on feelings as opposed to visual images in their fantasies.
They emphasise tenderness, romance and personal involvement and pay more attention to the way their partner responds to them.
For example, "He is hanging on my every word and looks at me with burning desire".
Kindness Is The Most Important Trait But It's Not Enough A global study of 37 cultures found that women want kindness the most in their partners.
This was followed by intelligence, then wealth, then status.
You'll learn about intelligence, wealth and status in later sections.
Kindness is about being loving, caring and giving.
How kind would you be if you were to give your woman amazing sexual pleasure, give her a comfortable lifestyle because of your financial success, give her love and attention to boost her self-esteem, and learn the natural health skills so she never gets breast or ovarian cancer? Kindness is the most important trait but it's not enough.
Otherwise, nice guys would have women lining up round the street for them.
Good Moral Character Is Sexy Good moral character was also found to be sexually attractive and romantically inspiring.
This moral beauty is connected with spirituality and also releases that magical orgasm hormone called oxytocin.
Good moral character produces win-win situations which promotes wealthy, stable, free and democratic societies.
You'll learn about moral beauty in another section.
The Sexy Brain Is An Entertainment System Humans have evolved big intelligent brains for one purpose: reproduction of genes.
Our big brains were mutually selected by our foremothers and forefathers because they were sexy and healthy.
More precisely, our brains are sexy because they are indicators of good health and good genes.
The more complicated the brain is, the easier it is to mess up from mutations and parasites and the harder it is to fake good health and therefore good genes.
So, if you are intelligent, you are likely to have good genes and woman will want to have sex with you.
What you're saying is, "I have conquered my mutations and parasites and I have enough surplus energy for a big costly brain to entertain you.
If this was not the case, I would be stupid and diseased-looking.
Mate with me and your offspring will be resistant to disease and free of mutations, not to mention, you'll have the time of your life with me.
My intelligence is a honest indicator, that is hard to fake, of my superior genes.
" More importantly, YOUR BRAIN IS AN ENTERTAINMENT SYSTEM THAT IS DESIGNED TO TURN WOMEN ON.
You have to learn how to activate it.
Do you remember from the personality studies that intelligence was ranked No 2 of the most attractive traits? The 9 Intelligences There are all kinds of ways of being intelligent.
Intelligence is the ability to solve problems or make new products.
A product could be an invention, idea, or system.
It is anything someone wants or values.
There are at least 9 broad intelligences and different parts of the brain specialise in each: Intrapersonal Understanding and motivating yourself Interpersonal Understanding and motivating others Linguistic Reading, writing and communicating with words Mathematical Numbers and reasoning Visual Thinking in pictures Musical Music, rhythm and sound Bodily Using your body in co-ordinated movements Naturalistic Understanding and using nature Spiritual Connection with the higher self The 9 Intelligences Model Is Superior To The Rest Traditional intelligence tests focus on mathematical and linguistic intelligences with some visual intelligence.
Emotional intelligence is intrapersonal and interpersonal intelligences.
These are your most important intelligences.
The superior intelligence model is the 9 Intelligences Model.
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