It is natural in a relationship for misunderstanding or offense to happen, after all we as human beings are prone to mistakes or stupid decisions sometimes.
However, misunderstandings or offenses should not always end in break ups, unfortunately they sometimes do.
In this case, if you the lady are the offender, then it is your duty to make an effort to get back your ex-boyfriend especially if he has decided to break up the relationship altogether.
Before a man will decide to break up with his girlfriend, he may not like the girl any more or may feel terribly bad and offended.
If you are a woman who truly wants to get back the love of her life you have to be careful, you do not want to start pestering him with calls every now and then, you may let him understand that you are sorry about what happened and must be truly repentant to win back his trust.
But do not pester him.
At the moment he is emotionally torn and is fighting to control himself psychologically.
You have to give him time, that is not to say you have to abandon him for a long time otherwise you give the impression that you care less.
Depending on the gravity of the offense, if you were caught flirting with another man,that is a different cup of tea all together then you have to be real careful not to annoy him the more.
If you understand him very well you may send a friend or a relative to let him understand how bad you personally feel, while you are doing this you do not have to give any impression of desperation.
If he agrees to speak with your friend or relative about how he feels, it is an indication that he would like to continue the relationship.
However, you still have to exercise caution.
Next you try to ask him out to one of your favorite meeting places and if he agrees make sure it is a place the two of you are not totally alone and do not try to get any flowers or gift to entice him at this stage, he may not have completely come over it yet.
When you do meet eventually, try to not revisit what happened as this may cause another argument that may go out of hand.
All you want to do now is to sincerely express your deep apology, let him see true repentance in you and do not feign it or pretend, be genuine.
You need to understand that every man has different parts in them; a man can be a king, a fool, a brute or a child, at this point you want to appeal to the king in him in order to bring out the child.
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