Now, you're having countless sleepless nights, you've lost your appetite for food completely and, worse of all, you don't want to do anything else with yourself all day long.
It is easily understandable that you're in this situation and feeling the way you do, especially if you did everything within your own power to keep your ex from leaving.
However, if you're going to put an end to everything else in life because your ex boyfriend or ex girlfriend left you, then you sure are in big trouble, right? The above situation leaves you with two simple options: You can let go and move on completely or you can go to work and try getting your ex back.
Whatever your choice may turn out to be, you need to snap out of your current self-pity and "I'm so sorry for myself" situation, and start thinking straight like everyone else.
Once you can do that then you'll be able to start thinking about getting your ex back as soon as you can.
If you've already done that but with no result, then you may be doing something wrong.
The following are a list of some reasons why you're not getting your ex back.
1.
You're still feeling sorry for yourself and depressed about the whole thing.
Yes, it's been mentioned already but worth mentioning again.
You need to stop thinking too much and stop feeling sorry for yourself.
You need a clear mind if you're really interested in getting your ex back 2.
You're not letting go - You're still calling your ex and telling him/her things like you still love/miss him/her.
You're too clingy if you're doing this and that'll only your ex further away.
3.
You're not looking back to the root of the problem; you know, the reason you broke up with your ex in the first place.
Once you can find these reasons out then, you're good to start working on getting your ex back.
4.
You haven't figured out a thorough game plan yet.
Do that and, you'll see how easy it is to get your ex back in no time.