Surviving Infidelity and How to Save My Marriage
I have yet to meet a person who deep down inside was not wanting a special someone they can love and have a family with.
That one person who understands and loves them for all they are with no exceptions in between.
Unfortunately that burning desire for love like no other turns into a nightmare of pain like none other for a lot of us.
Now when you sat down and decided to get married, you knew then, or at least had some sort of sense what marriage meant.
The number one response of that from people is usually, yeah till death do us part.
Well why is it that death is not the number one reason for people losing the loved one they walked down that isle to marry.
Why is it that divorce is the number one reason? Going along with divorce is the reasoning.
Why are people not understanding that getting married does not mean that life stops? Oh no folks, getting married means life gets way more interesting.
You will find that outside influences become like leaches wanting to rip the skin off that beautiful union of one.
Cheating in marriage, meaning infidelity of any sorts, is second on the list of the most degrading things that a spouse can do to their beloved.
The first is abuse.
If abuse is the problem in your marriage, I am going to tell you right now, do not sit around and take that for no reason at all.
The only way to save an abusive marriage is through serious professional counseling and a complete understanding (in paper documented by the authorities) the consequences of abuse.
Infidelity warning signs are always present, so when a person says they had no idea that there spouse was thinking of cheating, they are wrong.
The signs were there to give them an idea, they just chose to ignore them.
When in love we tend to see what we want to see.
A cheating wife or a cheating husband no doubt took the cowards route to ignore their marital issues.
All infidelity does is surmount the problems times ten.
It is however, important to know that a marriage surviving infidelity is very much possible.
When you ask, how to save my marriage after infidelity, know that you hold the ability to do that.
If you and your spouse have separated due to infidelity but have not yet gotten a divorce.
Go ahead and get your ex back.
The power of Making Up will give you such a joy you may want to renew your vows, and continue down that crazy winding path of till death do us part.
Kill them with kindness and forgiveness.
Remember you are the key to their heart.
Your spouse chose you to marry for a reason.
Let the reason shine in yourself again.
We can grow past the pain with the showers of love.
That one person who understands and loves them for all they are with no exceptions in between.
Unfortunately that burning desire for love like no other turns into a nightmare of pain like none other for a lot of us.
Now when you sat down and decided to get married, you knew then, or at least had some sort of sense what marriage meant.
The number one response of that from people is usually, yeah till death do us part.
Well why is it that death is not the number one reason for people losing the loved one they walked down that isle to marry.
Why is it that divorce is the number one reason? Going along with divorce is the reasoning.
Why are people not understanding that getting married does not mean that life stops? Oh no folks, getting married means life gets way more interesting.
You will find that outside influences become like leaches wanting to rip the skin off that beautiful union of one.
Cheating in marriage, meaning infidelity of any sorts, is second on the list of the most degrading things that a spouse can do to their beloved.
The first is abuse.
If abuse is the problem in your marriage, I am going to tell you right now, do not sit around and take that for no reason at all.
The only way to save an abusive marriage is through serious professional counseling and a complete understanding (in paper documented by the authorities) the consequences of abuse.
Infidelity warning signs are always present, so when a person says they had no idea that there spouse was thinking of cheating, they are wrong.
The signs were there to give them an idea, they just chose to ignore them.
When in love we tend to see what we want to see.
A cheating wife or a cheating husband no doubt took the cowards route to ignore their marital issues.
All infidelity does is surmount the problems times ten.
It is however, important to know that a marriage surviving infidelity is very much possible.
When you ask, how to save my marriage after infidelity, know that you hold the ability to do that.
If you and your spouse have separated due to infidelity but have not yet gotten a divorce.
Go ahead and get your ex back.
The power of Making Up will give you such a joy you may want to renew your vows, and continue down that crazy winding path of till death do us part.
Kill them with kindness and forgiveness.
Remember you are the key to their heart.
Your spouse chose you to marry for a reason.
Let the reason shine in yourself again.
We can grow past the pain with the showers of love.