Cunnilingus Guide - Tips to Become a Master Cunnilinguist
In order to become a master "cunnilinguist" you have to be conscious about several ground rules.
While the groans and pants may excite you and encourage you to go for more, you must also be very perceptive since those verbal and non-verbal signals may not always mean that everything is going great up there while you are at it down under.
From Bottom and Up May Not Always Work As a general rule, it is not wise to start the encounter by going straight to the bottom.
Work your way down in a gradual pace.
This should be your style unless she specifically wants that you start from the bottom.
The basic rule remains relevant no matter how many instances you have gone under.
There are some women who might find it more exciting to start from that point, but in most cases, the opposite is the better and safer approach.
Women find it more exciting and gratifying if you slowly move your way to the middle portion.
Don't Go Direct to the Clitoris Following the same principle, it is also not wise to work on the clitoris instantly, if and when you finally get there.
This means that it is a BIG no-no to immediately start licking her clitoris.
Instead, you can start working on the immediate periphery which is equally sensitive, even if you won't get the same response.
Along this line, it is not wise to begin inserting your fingers in your partner's vagina.
Allow her to be properly heated up.
Slowly build up the excitement before you even consider using your fingers on her.
Men should always understand that the tongue is perfect for the clitoris while the finger is more suited for the vagina.
This is the general rule, and you have to keep this in mind while working on her love hole.
However, it is not a bad idea to ask your partner if she prefers to take it in a different manner.
Most women find it rough if the clitoris gets in direct contact with their partner's fingers.
In the same manner, the excitement women feel when the tongue gets inside the vagina is a pure myth.
In truth and in fact, the experience is not really stimulating to them.
Work on your Vocals It helps if you can create some noise while you are performing cunnilingus on her.
Women, while they are extremely excitable during this state of the encounter, still feel that the act is quite unpleasant for you.
If she groans and gasps, don't stay silent.
Make some noise; let them feel that you are enjoying every bit of the experience.
While the groans and pants may excite you and encourage you to go for more, you must also be very perceptive since those verbal and non-verbal signals may not always mean that everything is going great up there while you are at it down under.
From Bottom and Up May Not Always Work As a general rule, it is not wise to start the encounter by going straight to the bottom.
Work your way down in a gradual pace.
This should be your style unless she specifically wants that you start from the bottom.
The basic rule remains relevant no matter how many instances you have gone under.
There are some women who might find it more exciting to start from that point, but in most cases, the opposite is the better and safer approach.
Women find it more exciting and gratifying if you slowly move your way to the middle portion.
Don't Go Direct to the Clitoris Following the same principle, it is also not wise to work on the clitoris instantly, if and when you finally get there.
This means that it is a BIG no-no to immediately start licking her clitoris.
Instead, you can start working on the immediate periphery which is equally sensitive, even if you won't get the same response.
Along this line, it is not wise to begin inserting your fingers in your partner's vagina.
Allow her to be properly heated up.
Slowly build up the excitement before you even consider using your fingers on her.
Men should always understand that the tongue is perfect for the clitoris while the finger is more suited for the vagina.
This is the general rule, and you have to keep this in mind while working on her love hole.
However, it is not a bad idea to ask your partner if she prefers to take it in a different manner.
Most women find it rough if the clitoris gets in direct contact with their partner's fingers.
In the same manner, the excitement women feel when the tongue gets inside the vagina is a pure myth.
In truth and in fact, the experience is not really stimulating to them.
Work on your Vocals It helps if you can create some noise while you are performing cunnilingus on her.
Women, while they are extremely excitable during this state of the encounter, still feel that the act is quite unpleasant for you.
If she groans and gasps, don't stay silent.
Make some noise; let them feel that you are enjoying every bit of the experience.