How to Get Your Child to Be a Great Storyteller!
Social skills, one of the most important things a person can learn in their life.
Think about it...
teaching charisma is necessary if you want your kids to have good friends, become a leader, find a significant other, grow to be a wealthy business person.
People skills.
Personalities mold at a young age, that's why this is the best time to teach charisma and perplexes me why there is no market for this.
Thank gosh I'm here to help you out.
This specific post goes past just the words and hits body language, facial expressions, tone, rhythm, dynamics.
This is big stuff.
When you speak to someone, you are GIVING them a piece of you.
This is a great quality humans can give to others...
value.
Making people happy.
So much is done through words and connection, and the rest is from the other physical attributes listed above.
As a general rule of thumb, over-express everything to your child.
They do not catch sarcasm, it is harder for them to pick up subcommunications that we have taken so long to learn throughout our lives by watching countless drama's on Lifetime and reality TV shows.
When you tell them about something happy, light your eyes up, raise your eyebrows and smile big..
When you are talking about something scary, start to stutter your words a little, breathe heavier, furrow your brows, speak quickly about what you are saying and then use pauses during transitions.
Make sure your eyes are piercing.
When you are speaking passionately about something, you are reliving the experience.
If you are talking about your hopes and dreams, you are visualizing it all in your head.
Let them see that.
Let the person you are talking to FEEL exactly what you are feeling.
That is the goal.
Now let's add these two emotions together to express a small story.
Watch how they mix.
Watch how I can act as if I am reliving a story in my mind as I tell it.
It comes through in my dynamics...
first fast and quick...
then pause...
then slow and big.
As kids listen to this, they are visualizing the story in their head.
This is how you effectively communicate to another person.
When you can instill these qualities into a child, they are learning core social skill techniques at an early age.
Sit down with your kids and ask them to mirror you as you express certain things.
I will do this in an upcoming video as well.
How you express yourself to your child will transfer to how they express themselves to others.
You are your child's biggest role model, they do what you do, even if they don't know it.
To see the videos, click at this social skills site [http://www.
charismatickids.
tv/Charismatic_Kids/Blog/Entries/2009/6/4_Teach_your_kid_how_to_be_a_great_storyteller!_(w_videos!).
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Think about it...
teaching charisma is necessary if you want your kids to have good friends, become a leader, find a significant other, grow to be a wealthy business person.
People skills.
Personalities mold at a young age, that's why this is the best time to teach charisma and perplexes me why there is no market for this.
Thank gosh I'm here to help you out.
This specific post goes past just the words and hits body language, facial expressions, tone, rhythm, dynamics.
This is big stuff.
When you speak to someone, you are GIVING them a piece of you.
This is a great quality humans can give to others...
value.
Making people happy.
So much is done through words and connection, and the rest is from the other physical attributes listed above.
As a general rule of thumb, over-express everything to your child.
They do not catch sarcasm, it is harder for them to pick up subcommunications that we have taken so long to learn throughout our lives by watching countless drama's on Lifetime and reality TV shows.
When you tell them about something happy, light your eyes up, raise your eyebrows and smile big..
When you are talking about something scary, start to stutter your words a little, breathe heavier, furrow your brows, speak quickly about what you are saying and then use pauses during transitions.
Make sure your eyes are piercing.
When you are speaking passionately about something, you are reliving the experience.
If you are talking about your hopes and dreams, you are visualizing it all in your head.
Let them see that.
Let the person you are talking to FEEL exactly what you are feeling.
That is the goal.
Now let's add these two emotions together to express a small story.
Watch how they mix.
Watch how I can act as if I am reliving a story in my mind as I tell it.
It comes through in my dynamics...
first fast and quick...
then pause...
then slow and big.
As kids listen to this, they are visualizing the story in their head.
This is how you effectively communicate to another person.
When you can instill these qualities into a child, they are learning core social skill techniques at an early age.
Sit down with your kids and ask them to mirror you as you express certain things.
I will do this in an upcoming video as well.
How you express yourself to your child will transfer to how they express themselves to others.
You are your child's biggest role model, they do what you do, even if they don't know it.
To see the videos, click at this social skills site [http://www.
charismatickids.
tv/Charismatic_Kids/Blog/Entries/2009/6/4_Teach_your_kid_how_to_be_a_great_storyteller!_(w_videos!).
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