Getting your ex back can seem hard, especially when you try really hard to get them back, but see no results. If you and your ex had just broken up, it is wise to give your ex a bit of time to think about things before trying to get back together. But, in the end, your ex will really not want you back, until you do a few key things. Here are some things you can do during and after that cooling off phase:

Get an amazing new you -
During your time away from your ex, you should take the opportunity to improve yourself as well. Let your ex reflect on his/her decision, then make use of this time to make your ex regret it. Do this by changing your looks to make yourself more attractive, focus on your job to get a promotion or get more exercise to get a fitter body.

Play around a little -
Life is worth living, so why do you act as if your life is over when your ex has broken up with you? Live a little, play a little, and don't be afraid to play around with your ex's mind as well. You can do this simply be ignoring your ex and refusing to do what he/she expects you to do now: break down. Instead, go out and have fun, tons of it!

Make changes -
Thing back on all the fights you had with your ex and take his/her problems about your relationship to heart. Make the necessary changes to your lifestyle and kick those bad habits! If your ex still has feelings for you and sees that you have changed for the better, then he/she will surely give you another chance.

Be spontaneous -
There is nothing better than being spontaneous, as it will surprise your ex and will intrigue your ex at the same time. Treat your ex like you would when you were first dating. Surprise him/her with great new things, and make yourself a bit mysterious.

Make friends -
Call your ex spontaneously and keep the calls short and friendly. Your goal is to gradually work your way back into your ex's life, but not necessarily to get back together (well, not yet). Do not bring up the past issues and make sure you sound cheerful, so as not to turn your ex off.

Work the circles -
Find out where your ex's friends and/or relatives hang out frequently and make it a point to go there regularly to "run into them." When you do, casually let slip all the positive and amazing things that has happened to you after the breakup. If they also see your fantastic new look, you might just win them over and give your ex a glowing report of how you had been.

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