Does He Love You Or Lust You? How to Test His Emotional Temperature
Can you tell the difference? Are you afraid of giving yourself emotionally to the wrong guy? Does he say the right words but you question his true feelings? Test his emotional temperature with this short quiz and learn whether he loves you or lusts you.
1.
When you're together, does the conversation usually...
a)revolve around his interests, his concerns, his aspirations? b)head toward his past relationships and why it was the woman's fault that it didn't work out? c)involve the both of you naturally sharing and communicating? 2.
When asks for a date does he...
a)call at the last minute? b)expect you to pay your own way? c)call well in advance with concrete and interesting plans? 3.
When he plans a date does...
a)it start and end in the bedroom? b)he quickly jump out of bed after you're finished to go back to his place or does he ask you to leave his place and go home when it's over? c)he plan something that would be of special interest to you or you both? 4.
When he says "I love you" does he...
a)say it only when you're in bed together? b)say it only when he's trying to get you in bed? c)say it in front of family, friends or impulsively no matter where you are? 5.
When you're discussing an idea you have for a project does he...
a)tell you why your idea won't work without offering alternative suggestions? b)act as if your idea is silly and lame and then generally drops the subject? c)support and encourage you and make you feel as if you can do anything you set your mind to? 6.
When he talks about the future does he: a)talk about it only using the word "I"? b)talk about plans that you would never want to be a part of? c)include you in his future and asks for your input? If you answered anything but "c" to one or more of those questions, run, do not walk, away from this relationship.
This relationship is the emotional equivalent of an ongoing booty call.
You may be having great sex but he's not in love with you.
He's in lust with you and you deserve so much more.
There are better men out there but you won't find him if you continue in this time-wasting, emotionless liaison.
1.
When you're together, does the conversation usually...
a)revolve around his interests, his concerns, his aspirations? b)head toward his past relationships and why it was the woman's fault that it didn't work out? c)involve the both of you naturally sharing and communicating? 2.
When asks for a date does he...
a)call at the last minute? b)expect you to pay your own way? c)call well in advance with concrete and interesting plans? 3.
When he plans a date does...
a)it start and end in the bedroom? b)he quickly jump out of bed after you're finished to go back to his place or does he ask you to leave his place and go home when it's over? c)he plan something that would be of special interest to you or you both? 4.
When he says "I love you" does he...
a)say it only when you're in bed together? b)say it only when he's trying to get you in bed? c)say it in front of family, friends or impulsively no matter where you are? 5.
When you're discussing an idea you have for a project does he...
a)tell you why your idea won't work without offering alternative suggestions? b)act as if your idea is silly and lame and then generally drops the subject? c)support and encourage you and make you feel as if you can do anything you set your mind to? 6.
When he talks about the future does he: a)talk about it only using the word "I"? b)talk about plans that you would never want to be a part of? c)include you in his future and asks for your input? If you answered anything but "c" to one or more of those questions, run, do not walk, away from this relationship.
This relationship is the emotional equivalent of an ongoing booty call.
You may be having great sex but he's not in love with you.
He's in lust with you and you deserve so much more.
There are better men out there but you won't find him if you continue in this time-wasting, emotionless liaison.