Top 5 First Date Mistakes Men Make
So you have a first date with a woman you think is smart, beautiful and confident.
Will you make an impression and if so will it be good or bad? Getting through the first few dates is not always easy without blowing it.
First impressions are all your date will know about you and can make or break any relationship before it breaths.
Here are 5 important mistakes not to make when dating early in the relationship.
1.
Over-thinking the Process It is a date after-all, a time to enjoy yourself in a social setting with someone you obviously want to spend time with.
Be yourself, if you over-think and stress about everything from conversation, what you are wearing, where you are going to how the night will end, she is going pick up on those vibes.
Relax and let the date unfold as it will.
Go with the flow but use common sense.
2.
Not Dressing for the Occasion Make sure you're not wearing a suit to the beach, flip flops to a 5 star restaurant, or pants that are 3 sizes too small.
I know these are extreme examples but this is the point.
Using the brains God gave you is all it boils down to.
Leave the wrinkled and stained clothing behind.
3.
Making Her Wait for You Nothing is more frustrating to a woman than feeling like she is not important enough for your time.
Don't be late for any date! If she is there waiting and ready then you should be to.
Just don't be to early either because that says you are anxious and she may feel rushed.
4.
Texting and Taking Calls This is a HUGE one! It smacks of rudeness, a lack of consideration, and overall says to her the person on the line is 100% more deserving of your time.
Unless someone is dying or you have children and the sitter calls DON'T PICK UP! 5.
Talking and not Listening Talking about ex girlfriends, partying, all about mother, or not letting her get a word in edgewise.
At the end of the night you still don't know what she does for a living, what she ordered at dinner, or any hobbies she may have.
The conversation should be a balance between you both, a give and take.
Stay away from these 5 mistakes and your chances of moving forward will improve drastically.
Happy dating and good luck!
Will you make an impression and if so will it be good or bad? Getting through the first few dates is not always easy without blowing it.
First impressions are all your date will know about you and can make or break any relationship before it breaths.
Here are 5 important mistakes not to make when dating early in the relationship.
1.
Over-thinking the Process It is a date after-all, a time to enjoy yourself in a social setting with someone you obviously want to spend time with.
Be yourself, if you over-think and stress about everything from conversation, what you are wearing, where you are going to how the night will end, she is going pick up on those vibes.
Relax and let the date unfold as it will.
Go with the flow but use common sense.
2.
Not Dressing for the Occasion Make sure you're not wearing a suit to the beach, flip flops to a 5 star restaurant, or pants that are 3 sizes too small.
I know these are extreme examples but this is the point.
Using the brains God gave you is all it boils down to.
Leave the wrinkled and stained clothing behind.
3.
Making Her Wait for You Nothing is more frustrating to a woman than feeling like she is not important enough for your time.
Don't be late for any date! If she is there waiting and ready then you should be to.
Just don't be to early either because that says you are anxious and she may feel rushed.
4.
Texting and Taking Calls This is a HUGE one! It smacks of rudeness, a lack of consideration, and overall says to her the person on the line is 100% more deserving of your time.
Unless someone is dying or you have children and the sitter calls DON'T PICK UP! 5.
Talking and not Listening Talking about ex girlfriends, partying, all about mother, or not letting her get a word in edgewise.
At the end of the night you still don't know what she does for a living, what she ordered at dinner, or any hobbies she may have.
The conversation should be a balance between you both, a give and take.
Stay away from these 5 mistakes and your chances of moving forward will improve drastically.
Happy dating and good luck!